i still miss him. we went out for 2 years. he lives in canada, i live in the US. im 14, hes 17. and now he has this adorable girlfriend that he is totally in love with. i dont know what to do. it is the worst feeling. it just makes me feel like "remember when you loved me??"
2007-04-04 17:13:56 · 23 answers · asked by hollisterCali 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Babe, the way you are feeling is COMPLETELY NORMAL. I'm sure everyone that has broken up from a longterm relationship feels this way sometime. I sure feel these emotions after breaking up with boyfriend of 4 years! I wonder if he has been with anyone else..it's awful to think about such things. I'm sure you have been with other guys..or if not you definitely will! Imagine how he feels thinking about you loving someone else. I'm sure it makes him upset too. Try not to think about it or else u will get sad and upset. Be strong and put your energies into yourself and having fun!! Babe, u are so young. Enjoy your life there are so many boys to have fun with : )
2007-04-04 17:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship was doomed from the start. You are 14 years old - He is 17... you guys are on two totally different levels. Long distance relationships are difficult to begin with especially when the two people can't afford to visit each other. You are young and I know it feels like your world is coming to an end, but trust me years from now you won't even remember his last name. Concentrate on school right now... deal with the boys later... preferably one in the states.
2007-04-05 00:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by Cambrianna S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he remembers and he always will. But you are 14 and need to be with guys that are closer to your age. And he needs to be with girls his age. You should date lots of guys before deciding to stick with just one for life. The people that I knew that dated when they were young and didn't date others then married, all say they missed out. You don't want to ever feel that way. Date around and have a blast. Who knows, maybe years from now you may see this guy again and have another shot. For now, be happy and carefree.
2007-04-05 00:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong... you really need to stand up again. Sometime you may think in the positive way. Maybe it's a good thing that you knew the Mr right wasn't him. The saying goes " the wrong person never go, the right person ain't come". Actually you have plenty of time since you are only 14. A lot of things you can enjoy in this very precious moment. I used t have one girl friend. And at last we ended up the relationship since she prefered to follow another guy. I spent at least 8 months to forget about the past, and finally i stand up again. I always tell myself, " i must love myself, i must do somethings good for myself... I should never do anything to hurt myself and i should not let myself to be upset". Because i love myself, i treat myself to eat nice food, watch movie alone, listening to my favor song with ipod wherever i go... and really enjoy my single life. The ups and downs in life must accept as it come.. You stil have your parents, your family and friends to support you. Bear in mind, you are not alone... The only thing is, your mr right haven't exist in this moment... I understand how pain/ hard the feeling by losing the one you love... If you feel like talking, you can always send me a email... brandon_lmf84@yahoo.com
Take care and good luck...
2007-04-05 00:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by do as infinity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just ignore him! Forget him! Your young and chances are it wasn't really love. You may have just been in love with the thought of being in love. When I was 14 I thought I loved some jerk who was 18. it was all a big mistake. Mistakes happen and one day when you find a love that is real it will make this guy seem like some test you failed in high school!
2007-04-05 00:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Moe ya know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OVER HIM
What kind of 17 year old goes out with a 14 year old. The man was a scum bag and you need to tell your self that.
And at this point in your life you shouldn't be worrying about having a 2 year relationship. Enjoy life and have fun with friends. Don't worry to much about dating
2007-04-05 00:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by darkwizzarrd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry for your pain... I am happy to say there will be tons of guys worthy of your love. I think if you learn to love yourself first and know you deserve the most out of a bf and you deserve the best bf in the world you will get one better then the Canadian guy I promise you you will!
Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. Never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded. But trust me, in 20 years you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked.
You are NOT as fat as you imagine.
Don't worry about the future; or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind; the kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.
2007-04-05 00:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by Billy Kapp 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are 14 and there are plenty of other guys out there. Don't focus on the past but look at the present. Are there any cute or nice guys at your school? Would you maybe consider dating some of the guys at your school? Get to know some of the other guys around, I am sure you will find one that makes you feel happy.
2007-04-05 00:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by msi_cord 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor baby... breakups are hard, and the first love is definetly the hardest. It's hard to believe now, but things will improve in time.
Get your girls, a movie, and some ice cream.
I'm sorry = (
You are awfully young to realize this, but you really do deserve to be with someone who thinks the sun rises and sets in your eyes... and you have a lot of time to find him. Now is the time to reinvent yourself and improve so that you can upgrade the next time around. Get some highlights, start jogging, experiment with makeup, get your nails done, etc. Things will get better, I promise.
2007-04-05 00:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by L'Ambitieux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK your 14 you dont know what the true meaning of love is one day you will but what you feel is lust or what kids call a crush just move on and enjoy your youth while you can get out and meet new people. good luck
2007-04-05 00:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by nemises65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋