I met this guy a few months ago and i really like him and I think he might like me too. The problem is that I barely know him. If he says no then we just go different ways but I don't want to lose him.
2007-04-04 16:01:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u never know till u do
2007-04-04 16:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Robert F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont ask you'll never know. Whats better, watching and wondering or knowing for sure. Go up talk to him and invite him out with a group you him and a few friends to the movies or to hang at the beach etc. If it goes well at the end of that you can ask him on a real date. Good luck!
2007-04-04 23:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by Shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you think you two might have a connection. You've got nothing to lose since you don't know him too well and if he says no then you know it wasn't meant to be. If he really is special he'll find his place in your life. If not, maybe you two can just be special friends. Anyway, good luck and I hope things really do work out for you two!
2007-04-04 23:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is VERY similar to what happened to me.
I've been dating this guy for 8 months. He is very nice and really care about me.. he did tell me that he like me a lot that he sometimes declined to answer his other friends calls or sms'. We going out to do some fun things together almost every other days. I am over the moon! But the question is; Does he love me? His answer is; "I'm not ready yet, We just going out for only 8 months" Give me sometimes... So now, I am so depressed... because I like this guy very much... Similar to you, after 4 month going out with him, he is the one that tell me that he like me very much and he said that he don't want to lead me on... He even send a Selena song: I Could Fall In Love to me. I did said to him that I don't want to lose him, and he reply, "You're not gonna lose me in any way"
But damaged already been done. We still do whatever we both like to do... but I am less expecting than before... BUT, I am still hoping that he will be my partner for the rest of my life.
So, maybe you can take something from my experience. I'm not gonna lie to you, it's not gonna be easy especially after you seeing him and the feeling grows! You can't stop it once you had a felling towards him in other word, you love him. My advice is, get to know each other frist. Maybe you can ask him; TRUST ME! Do it before it get worse. If he said no, then you must live your life and move on... thats what i do.
Good luck! =)
"You CAN Stop Loving him, But you CAN'T stop care about him"
2007-04-04 23:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by I, Idiot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look the way I see it, it's like if you let him go you will never find out if it was meant to be or not. Give it a try and see what happens. You won't loose anything but you could gain something beatiful.
2007-04-04 23:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by delia g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUst take things slow. Since you are unsure of what will happen then u shouldn't do anything until you feel it's the right time before you regret doing something.
2007-04-04 23:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it simple if you like him and your unsure don't try to pursue anything until you know if he likes you in a dating way. Besides why waste a good thing.
2007-04-04 23:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by angel195 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tie him up next time you get him alone and take off all of his cloths, then get a few of your friends and take turns on him. He is sure to like you a great deal after that.
2007-04-04 23:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by tavrohdj 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just ask him on a date.
2007-04-04 23:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by sweetchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the chance
if u lose him dont fret
theres many guys out there
2007-04-04 23:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by smarta$$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, try to make him your friend before you make him your date. If you ask him he may get scared you are russing him and are too forward
2007-04-04 23:05:22 · answer #11 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋