2007-04-04 09:22:38 · 27 answers · asked by Kaydens 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it means **** or get off the pot...
2007-04-04 09:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that you should be expecting an engagement ring very soon. You should also not let him move in without more of a commitment. If he has been able to maintain a place to live for the past 4 years of your relationship then he should probably continue there until your relationship has elevated to the next level. Make sure you know your worth and if he is serious enough to want to move in then he should be serious enough to get married. Don't be someones fall guy either. If he is having financial difficulty and thinks that combining incomes will help out let him know that being roommates probably won't be a good idea, you feel me.
2007-04-04 09:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by Felisha S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Does he have his own place now or is he squatting at his parents' or a friends place? If he already has his own place, then it means he wants to be with you and share his life with you (not to mention bills and rent, which makes a lot of sense). If he's unemployed and sleeping on someone's couch, then I'd question his motives. Make him get his own place first, then see how that goes before you let him move in with you. Otherwise you could end up supporting him. It happened to me! And I didn't even see it coming.
2007-04-04 09:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by candycane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he only wants to "move in" with you---only.
After 4 years, he's still not ready to marry you, but wants to benefits of a marriage, so that's why he wants to move in w/you w/out the commitment.
Girl, give yourself your place!
2007-04-04 09:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is to attend the 4 years, and get married. sensible suggestion on waiting: Mutual masturbation would desire to and would desire to no longer be happy with him. communicate over with him approximately it. Ask him if it is positive so you might masturbate, ask him if he's prepared to help, ask him what's positive, what isn't, the thank you to flow approximately getting as plenty actual gratification from him as you may. connect on an emotional point, and include one yet another. flow on dates, draw close out interior the park, communicate relating to the failings that truly count quantity in existence, no longer in basic terms intercourse. and then... communicate approximately intercourse! while intercourse will become between the failings which you connect on emotionally, no longer in basic terms bodily, then you certainly would be waiting to share it even while not having it. the subsequent one sounds awkward, yet... throw your self at him, and supply your self to him. Make it his decision how plenty/how far/how usually. once you have thoroughly got rid of the theory that it is your decision out of your techniques, that he could have however he needs from you each and every time he needs it whether stressful he needs it, then it certainly gets slightly much less puzzling to attend. Then on a similar time, you may desire to have the different 2, so as which you will say to him, "Wow, i'm incredibly interior the temper for some sort of exact action," and he can evaluate that when he comes to a decision the thank you to procede that night, the subsequent night, etc.
2016-11-07 05:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by javoronkov 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your boyfriend of 4 years, I would hope you would ask him what it means!
2007-04-04 09:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Courtney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he wants to move in with you.
2007-04-04 09:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by stn1225 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depend on what you have been doing leading up to this.
It could be nothing more than saving him money, or him needing a place to live. It could be a delaying tactic to keep you on the hook a bit longer before he dumps you, or nothing more than wanting more sex.
Keep this in mind: the divorce rate for people who live together before getting married is higher than those who don't.
2007-04-04 09:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to get more serious and possibally wanting marriage. I know my boyfriend wants me and him to move in together to make sure we can get along before we take the step in getting married. Soo....
2007-04-04 09:27:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's ready to move foward in your relationship and make a commitment (or he needs a place to live)
2007-04-04 09:26:06 · answer #10 · answered by Looking for the REAL answer! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he got kicked out of his place or he is ready to move forward in the relationship
if you only want him to move in if you are married, then make that clear and don't give in.
If you are ready to move on as he seems to be then go for it.
be cool...
2007-04-04 09:27:18 · answer #11 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋