My bf & I have been dating for 2.5 yrs and we started having sex after a year. When we first started having sex I didnt really tell what I liked. I mean he is good at what he does and makes me feel F&^%ing fantastic but I didnt say "this is good, I LOVE THIS!" but what he does do is awesome. Anyhow, I have now realized what I like and what I want him to do to me. So after being together and doing it for so long would you find it weird that I am all of sudden being vocal about what I want and where I want it?
2007-04-04 09:14:19 · 1 answers · asked by Geez Louise! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not weird! After 1.5 years you absolutely should be talking like that.
Just frame it very positively. Tell him what you really love and wish he'd do more of. Reassure him that you like everything else too. Mention the one tiny exception of what you don't like so he'll believe you about the rest.
And be very eager to give him more of what he likes too. Positive reinforcement is a wonderful thing!
2007-04-04 12:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋