The man has been married three times, the first he filed for divorce due to physical abuse from the woman, the second was filed by the woman due to irreconcilable differences, and the third was filed by him due to physical abuse from the woman again. No adultery or cheating involved. The woman has only been married once and the man cheated on her with more than one woman that led to the divorce. These two have been best friends since high school but have never been together and/or involved in a romantic relationship. Can these two start a relationship now and begin to plan a wedding and a life together without the fear of having made the wrong choice concerning remarriage?
2007-04-04 09:02:23 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If these two people can truly say they are certain that God has brought then together, then yes they can
2007-04-04 09:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they have been friends for so long, then maybe love is possible. Sometimes to acheive the relationship you have always dreamed of, you have to think outside of yourself. Obviously if he has had all of this relationship trouble in the past he is looking for someone in the same manner he always has and seeking out the same type of woman whether it is intentional or not. I don't think their religion has anything to do with it but having that in common with one another might help. I wouldnt say the 2 should marry right away but should try to have a dating relationship for a while. Since the man has been married 3 times already, he should definiteliy take it one step at a time. No sense getting divorced a fourth time, right. If it is meant to be it will happen. There is no need to rush love.
2007-04-04 09:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by Agey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Isn't the only Biblical reason for divorce adultery? From what you have described, the man cannot Biblically remarry. Physical abuse cannot be tolerated so I can understand a seperation, but if he divorced her and not the other way around, then he shouldn't remarry. Sorry.
2007-04-04 09:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by V 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
People tend to make the same mistakes over and over again so if I were in their shoes I think I would want to be very sure that the other person is not simply a remake of what once was.
2007-04-04 09:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by Poohcat1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that is going to on the individuals. if they asked me to marry them, i wouldn't do it because of the irreconcilable differences. i think that is the catch. the abuse and adultry are valid reasons for divorce in my opinion. so,i would not reccomend marriage.
2007-04-04 09:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by pstod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both of these people should remain single for the rest of their lives. If you're not smart enough to see whether or not someone is incompatible with you, then you have no business marrying or reproducing.
2007-04-04 09:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Lilith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there are many choices in life that you can make without having the possibility of it being the wrong one.
No one can answer whether they should start a relationsihp but them.
2007-04-04 09:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by artist_soul_auslaut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is always fear that we will make the wrong choice. We are only human!!! 1st, 2nd, 3rd. It really doesn't matter. What matters is how much they love and respect eachother. Thats what love is. And if they are putting God first and themselves second, they will be just fine!
Best Wishes to the happy couple!!
2007-04-04 09:10:14 · answer #8 · answered by dreamteam 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are so lucky talking about those subjects.
Come to Brazil, Rio de Janeiro, land of the stray bullets.
Are you talking about marriage contracts ? So blessed you are.
In my country I am trying to survive.
2007-04-04 09:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by Bad Dream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need time together to decide compatibility not an analysis of the past. Good luck.
2007-04-04 09:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are heavily inspired to maintain away from sinful practices,yet any "contracts"should be verbal,between God and the guy.. in no way heard of such. Non-denominational Christian.
2016-12-03 06:59:05 · answer #11 · answered by naranjo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋