sometimes stay longer than neccessary on these business trips. I often would stay an extra night or two just to have some alone time and pay out of pocket for it. I would tell my husband that I was still working (flexibile hours at my job, so he thought nothing of it).
We were going over all our receipts and what not with accountant last night, and I had saved some of the receipts that I was supposed to submit to my employer for reimbursement.
Anyway long story short, he discovered that I was staying longer than needed on my trips, and is very upset. He thinks that either I am cheating or can't stand being around him.
I simply wanted some time to myself after attending these stressful meetings.
I have my own savings account for this very reason, but did not want him to know how I use it - he thinks that sort of thing is a waste of money.
How do I get out of this one? I already explained that it was simply that I need some alone time, but he's furious that I spent money!
2007-04-04 06:48:41 · 3 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Business & Finance ➔ Taxes ➔ United States
So this is not a tax question but a relationship question right?
Ok, it's a matter of trust. between you and your hubby. first why were you not being honest with him? did you earn his trust as he earned it with you. do you take his trust for granted. Trust is not reading his mind and say he would say this or that if I do this or that. trust is telling him the truth and getting him upset and still go and do what you need to do for your self cause you need this for your self. if he gets upset just tell him he is doing you a favor by having a private time to wine down. you need it so tell him it's a gift from him for you.
if you were my wife, I'll be upset if you didn't tell me why. if you did i would be less worry. as for the bank account so what, it's your money. if you pay part of your bill and he pay his why not.
2007-04-04 06:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you have lots of question in the section..
plane to see that all is not good between you two,, you are not truthful with him ,, he should be upset about that,, or hurt,,
2007-04-04 08:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jo Blo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post in the relationships area. This isn't a tax question.
You've made your bed, now lay in it.
2007-04-04 07:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by Bostonian In MO 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋