Why does every guy I like have a problem?

Question

Here's a small list of what has happened when I even thought about liking a certain guy--

--was gay--happened three times
--racist
--had a kid,
--was a sexual deviant
--married
--missing a limb
--famous
--was the popular guy who liked me back but couldn't date him because of threats by other girls--this happened twice
--didn't like light-skinned black women
--too old --not like 50, but like 10-15 years older than me.
--was a player
--didn't graduate, no job or future

I know it's not looks because I have been told I'm good-looking, but is it a curse/ Should I try talking to guys I don't like/ What's going on/

Answer 1

Yea maybe a good start talking to guys you don't like, lol. Really your problems going to come from the fact that your not set on what kind of man you want. Also try being friends first.... like them that much in the begaining and build it up. Don't go into a relationship with a person thinking that it has to be a certain way, espacially since were talking love her. Get to know a person I mean the one who had a kid could of been a darn good person if he was the one talking care of the kid, also come on you let a missing limb get in the way? O and famous was to much for you? Seems your pretty certian what you don't want, so start by being friends with some gentlement frist and maybe you'll start to see what it is you do like, need, and can tolerant in your signifaced other.