well, since i asked my last question...am i pregnant...i have had other symptoms of being pregnant....nausea, legs cramping, mucus (sorry if tmi) and other symptoms,
im gonna take a pregnancy test tonite even though it might be too soon....
if it comes out positive, i am not sure how to tell my boyfriend...
if i am pregnant, how should i tell him?
2007-04-04 02:59:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
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he has a good job, but is always concerned about money, i am afraid that he might be upset about the financial aspects of having a baby...also am i worrying too much....should i just take the test first and then tell him, or tell him i think i am pregnant and then take the test together?
2007-04-04 04:12:32 · update #1
Hello Again, Its Lee. The person who has helped you throught this, i think that this evening, that you should go to your boyfriend and say that you might be pregnant, get a pregnancy test from the local pharmacy, and say that you would like him to be there to see if your pregnant.
The worst that can happen is that he says that he does not want it, then you can get an abortion.
If he truely loves you then he will do what you want, and what he thinks is best for the both of you.
Hope this helps?
Lee
2007-04-04 03:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was really worried about how I was going to approach this one. My boyfriend was asleep on the sofa and I snuck upstairs to do the test, when it came out positive I ran downstairs, shook him saying ''I'm pregnant, look, I'm pregnant!'' I couldnt help it, something just came over me and I couldnt not keep saying it over and over. My poor boyfriend was still half asleep and didnt really know what was going on!
I would just say to him ''I've got some news, I'm pregnant'' if you can contain yourself that is! lol
Good luck hun!
2007-04-04 10:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by angelcakes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is kind of sick, but it's what I did twice.
Take the pregnancy test and if it is positive, wrap it up and give it to him.
2007-04-04 10:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I decided to cook Homemade bread and I have a "bun in the oven", should be ready in about nine months.
2007-04-04 10:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Snaglefritz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. Don't beat around the bush. Don't be coy. Just tell him.
2007-04-04 10:40:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he's sitting down, then get to the point.
2007-04-04 10:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by Emily T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
write him a letter
2007-04-04 10:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by Tichelle 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How about proposing marriage?
2007-04-04 10:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋