This guy I have know for yrs has a live-in girlfriend of 17 yrs. and no kids. She does not own any of their real estate- just some furniture. She works all week, cleans the house, takes care of his mother that lives with them, and makes sure the bills get paid and mails his tax papers. He tells me he is not happy with their sex life and wants to kick her out and move me in. He has told me about their disagreements. She has said "I am not wanted here." He wants a motorcycle and she ask him not to because she was afraid he would get hurt. He said he told her "Well, I can ride the motorcycle and you can stay at home." When he told me he kind of rolled his eyes about her and said that "she was mad all evening but I was just joking." He talks very arrogant. Sure he owns a few rental properties but I don't think that he should be so fussy or arrogant. He used me as a guaranteed sex partner years ago and says that he always loved be but could not find me because I moved. HELP?
2007-04-04 02:27:30 · 13 answers · asked by formy p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy sounds like a complete asshole. Don't move in with him, you could be next in the "17 year live in girlfriend". This guy has no balls whatsoever.
2007-04-04 02:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are nothing more than sex. A man will tell you anything to get what he wants. So you go ahead and move back and move in with him and in 17 years he will be kicking you out too for the next nest thing. You already said he used you as a guaranteed sex partner. Don't you feel dirty and used?? He clearly is disrespectful and thinks he can have whatever he wants. He is a sad excuse for a man and for you to keep this kind of friend doesn't say much for your character. Birds of a feather....
2007-04-04 02:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by Cutie Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a selfish person. He doesnt want to be alone. Take all that into consideration. I really dont think you need help I think you already know the answer to this question. This women deserves to know the truth. If you are more then willing to step into her shoes then go ahead. I am sure you will both get exactly what you deserve.
2007-04-04 02:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds quite disrespectful to women. he will treat you the way he treats her now. He doesn't want a love partner as much as he wants a cleaning woman, secretary, cook etc. Kick his arrogant azz to the nearest curb and move on.
2007-04-04 02:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like hes disrespectfull to ALL women. Look what hes doing to his girlfriend for one and on top of that hes making someone eles take care of his own mother. So run far away from this guy. Hes no good at all.
2007-04-04 02:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the way most men talk when they are trying to justify an affair. Best thing you can do is stay away from him. He sounds like a loser to me who doesn't appreciate women. from what you say, he is selfish and would only use you.
2007-04-04 02:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I give you 17 years
2007-04-04 02:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jukebox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he would do the same thing to you that hes doing to her. He cheated on her to be with you. When he gets tired of you he will find some one else. Who's to say your his only extra woman any way? Woman! Get the hell away from this liein, cheatin, hoe!
2007-04-04 02:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't tell me you're actually considering moving in with him. I'm sure you're smarter than that. If he treats his current gf like that, what's to keep him from doing that to you? Don't go near him. He just wants convenient sex. Like you said, you were at one time a guarateed sex parter. That's all he really sees you as.
2007-04-04 02:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by big_dog832001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um he just sounds like he wants to run away from any problems that comes towards him and he just wants the easy way out.. he sounds like he uses women to get what he wants then leaves... don't fall for him
2007-04-04 02:35:44 · answer #10 · answered by drunken_monkeys101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋