So it's been almost 2 months since my girlf friend has broken up with me after 4 years being together... and I miss her terribly...I don't know what excuse could I use to call her? should I tell her that I miss her? Should I ask her if I could meet her for lunch at her work for half hour just to say hi? but at the same time I dont want her to reject me....?
2007-04-04 02:19:55 · 8 answers · asked by Mike s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After 4 years, you should at least be friends. Ask her to lunch just to see how things are going. I would say, he just wanted to check on you just to see how you are doing, and just catch up, how about lunch
2007-04-04 02:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it was a serious breakup its time for you to move on with your life. Be grateful that those 4 years were not married ones and that you didn't have to go through a messy divorce and every other weekend with 'the kids'.
There is more lovely people out there you 2 might have just grown up and matured that is okay it happens. Concentrate on your job and your self and someone else will come along don't wear your heart on your sleeve, if nothing else take a small vacation to change your point of view. It's not easy but people get over one another every day and you will too.
2007-04-04 09:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello friend
You no i am reading ur message and at the same time i m filling pain. It happened to me sometime. One thing i ve learnt is that when a woman dumps you she really means it. Very few occasions she will come back. Also depends on the reason she dumped u for. U would even c it in her eyes that she means it when she dumps you. U no just kip ur head up and move on.4 months is just too much and i think u should have given up over it within yourself. I no its so painful that u would even want to cry but i take it that she has even 4goten u already. Probably she is happy with someone. Anyway it is up to ur insticts to try to persuade her. I remember i tried to persuade mine some time bak and she refused she never wanted to see me anyhow. Probalbly you may use someone who is influancial to help you. Just a thot, though some people will be angry at such a move.
2007-04-04 09:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...well, that's a risk you'd have to take if you ask her to lunch or something. What was the reason she broke it off? Two months isn't hardly enough time to get over someone you were with for a long time. You are in the rebound stage so I'd hang loose if I were you. I personally wouldn't get ahold of her. It was over for a reason and she's probably trying to move on with her life. Start hanging out with friends! Keep your options open! She's probably not the only one who can make you happy =)
2007-04-04 09:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i'd give her a call i'm pretty sure that she misses you, no matter how much she says she doesn't. after 4 years its going to take a while for her to get over you... unless you did something to break her heart. but call her and ask if you can take her out for lunch and just ask her how shes been doing. and just have fun
2007-04-04 09:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by drunken_monkeys101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has been two months, and she hasn't made an attempt to contact you, then you have to realize that it's over. Move on with your life. Sure, it's going to hurt...and continue to hurt, till you find your next love, then this hurt will be gone. Don't delay, start today. And remember what went wrong in your last relationship, and don't make the same mistakes this time.
2007-04-04 09:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by auditor4u2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you miss her, I say you have to contact her to see if there's a chance. Otherwise you'll always wonder and never have the closure you need to really move on. Go ahead and call, ask to see her, dont make it sound like a date though. And stay open for cues on the phone, if she stalls or makes excuses, maybe she's not interested, and as much as it may hurt, you know then that you need to move on once and for all.
2007-04-04 09:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jukebox 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is up to you. If you still think about her some much, there is nothing gained by doing nothing. Let her know your feelings and you will get an answer one wya or the other. Either way, you will know what to do next. Nothing venterured, nothing gained.
2007-04-04 09:23:17 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋