IF i found out my wife and her ex boyfriend and her girl friend went on a 4 day trip and lied to me , while i watched the kids and is it my right to ask her to her to come clean if nothing happend and get intouch with her ex boyfriends wife so she could be a part of this tangled web of lies and cheating?
2007-04-04 02:10:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How did you find this all out? I would only confront your wife and ask her to come clean on you. When you lie, you break a trust with someone and it results in the inability to trust that person in the future. If she has lied to you, you trust is gone and she is responsible for restoring it back again. That restoration will take time, effort, and commitment of her part. Ask her if she is willing to do so. Her answer will let you know what happens next.
2007-04-04 02:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really feel sorry for you... but What are you pissed off about more fella? Your wife cheatin on you?.. or U having to watch the kids while she was out having a ball..
Anyways if I was in your place, I would definitely ask her whether she did go off with her buddies and if yes why she did it and what was the reason that she felt that you and the kids should not be a part of this...
Further, I would tell her not to ever do such a thing again as it really is very heartbreaking.
2007-04-04 13:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...and I would really look into re-evauluating my relationship. I would get the guys wife involved for sure. Chances are that she doesnt know. Chances are they are cheating. Also chances are it was just the two of them and no friend went. I would confront this situation head on. You have every right to question it. Dont let someone push you around.
2007-04-04 09:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I would be sooo mad if that happened to me. You should let the guys wife know so that you can get everything out in the open, and maybe she knows something that you don't know. That is crap that she took off like that and just left you at home with the kids! Step up and say something, if you find something bad out, you are better off, be good to yourself!
2007-04-04 09:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should definately be confronted. The situation was really not fair, and really not right. Don't involve the ex-boyfriend's wife, that really has nothing to do with you. But you should not stand for her lying and going behind your back. Good luck!
2007-04-04 09:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife has no regard for you or the kids.
I think you should speak to her about it all and after that see if you still want a future with someone that deceptive.
2007-04-04 09:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by ambidextrous25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By taking up the role of baby sitter, u have lost all ur rights, let the adults enjoy, baby.
2007-04-04 09:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by anwesha08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This was the wrong thing for her to do. I would make her come clean and if she has nothinbg to hide she should do so for the sake of your marriage.
2007-04-04 09:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as i see it 'why not
2007-04-04 09:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by ucjoycelaforce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dam strait its right! I'd be real jacked up about this. I think I'd send her packing strait to hell!
2007-04-04 09:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋