there is these gathering in our school and my boyfriend and i decided to meet there to have a date because we were not able to meet for 2 months and we miss each other terribly. he asked me he could kiss me and i don't know how to response to his kisses. i don't know if it's proper that i'll say yes to his question because im worried that he might think that im easy to get?
2007-04-04 00:46:58 · 18 answers · asked by honey_106 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a big difference between kissing and sex. Don't have sex with the guy or let him get too "touchy-feelie" but kiss him if you want to or feel like it. A kiss can say alot but it is also fun. Just like anything in life, it is all in the details: do you like him, have you kissed before, is he pressuring you, etc. IF you feel pressured or you don't really like him then don't kiss him. IF this is your "first" kiss then you do want to wait until it is with someone special and it is the right moment. Those are two very hard questions to know the answer too but if he likes you then he will want to kiss you and if he cares about you then he will understand if you want to wait. So, if he wants to kiss you but is willing to wait then that is a good sign. If he niether wants to kiss you or wait then what are you worried about. If he wants to kiss you but doesn't want to wait then maybe that is a sign that he is not the right one or, more likely, that either you or he or both of you are not ready yet. it is not about being "easy" but being ready... are you ready? Is he ready? Are you two ready?
2007-04-04 00:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by Don Quesadia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if you are bf/gf then you should kiss him. Also you haven't seen him for two months so ther is no way that he will think you are easy. He is your bf after all so you can go ahead and kiss him. It is what bf/gfs do when they are together.This has nothing to do with being easy. Just make sure it does not go any further than a kiss.
2007-04-04 01:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by CUTIE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not,,,, I mean do not have to feel pressured to kiss any one. that is your body and you control it. If you don't want to kiss him he will respect that. And if he don't respect you then you need to dump him. Just the fact you are asking this question tells us you are not easy and in fact a good girl..... You stay true to who you are and you will get the respect you deserve. Don't give in to what others want from you. You only get one body and one life time. And your body is your monument take care of it. Good luck
2007-04-04 00:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by Rican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all wase depends on the kiss just a small one on the cheek is fine in the beginning but don't move to fast but it seems your smarter then that i believe you will do the right thing and i will come naturally its going to be weird at first because your not use to it but all in good time
2007-04-04 00:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by philip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u want 2 kiss him? But personally I think u should since u havnt seen him in so long good luck!
2007-04-04 00:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by Marlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is ok if you feel comfortable enuff, I think what your scared of what the kiss will lead up to.. and if your not ready just tell him, better to be honest then to lead him on..
2007-04-04 00:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to then make it a cheek kiss n sum holding hands
tht will do the trick if u felt tht is not enough then kiss him its all up 2 how much u luv him
2007-04-04 00:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by Y! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi honey ! i don't kno how was ur relationship?i will say 1 kiss
is ok. if u luv each other dearly n it also depends how old r u.
so if u want go ahead if u don't want at this moment then tell him that
2007-04-04 00:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is your boyfriend right??? so why feel bad about kissing your boyfriend. Go ahead and kiss him
2007-04-04 00:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT KISS him.....he will think you are easy and that he can sway you to do anything he wants you to do.....don't listen to children about this either...listen to us adults who have been there.he may talk bad about you when you break up and say you had sex with him even if he only kissed you...and you two WILL break up......do you want to take that chance? ALSO if you had to ask you KNOW the answer...do not do it!!If you doupt things in your life....do not do them it is GOD telling you NO....he is that "little voice" in your head people talk ! If you save yourself you will feel soooo much better about yourself..NO ONE else cares about you........only about themselves....trust me
2007-04-04 00:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋