I asked a question a while back about my man withdrawing, people were saying that he may not be interested in a serious relationship. what do I do to get him interested? and if he starts withdrawing, what should I do?
2007-04-04 00:31:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If someone really loves you then you shouldn't have to work so hard. Sounds like you are doing all the work 90/10.
2007-04-04 00:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by SheRa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well well dear, you seem really involved whereas he seems found someone better (rather newer) for himself. You seem contended and loving person, whereas he definately is going for the new every time sort of a person.
Don't waste your time and energies on him. Most of the men are like this (i am also a man).
But if you really are involved and love him deep down, then you need to talk to him, express your feelings for him, ask what's the reason for this withdrawing. If you have some clue then make the required changes in your habbits & attitude, he may start comming back to you.
Once you have made a serious effort and does not come back to you, then better forget him and find someone better than him, who love you and cares about you, and not about your youth, body or just sex ... who really cares about you as a person.
2007-04-04 00:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by khawaja253 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't want you to get pregnant. Ask him why the change.
If he avoids giving you a good answer, I would start doing some serious investigation. He is probably either not looking at you for a permanent girlfriend, or he is cheating.
2007-04-04 00:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him thank you, afterall who wants an unplanned pregnancy!! But seriously, if he wants ta go ya gotta let him go! When it's right, both people know it, and when it's not you sure can't force it. You would be doing a disservice to both of you, but mainly you!
2007-04-04 00:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by michelledenay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang in there, could be one of those flat spots i've talked about before, eg; the hormones arent running as high as they normally do, if i'm right he will be back with a vengeance, n your in for a great time!!!!
2007-04-04 00:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant force a man to settle down, you just have to talk to him and try to figure out if there is something you can do.
2007-04-04 00:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tey being romantic...go to a romantivc dinner......go hoome and have candles lit, sip wine and talk...wear a teddy.........touch his arm...gently with one finger moove his hair out of his eye.....see what happens..if he doesn't respond ..you have problems......
2007-04-04 00:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hav a one on one open talk wit him ask him wat according 2 him is d future of this relations tell him wat do u feel n remeber set ur lover free n see if he comes back 2 u or is chekin out on other chiks if he is chekin out on other girls then u quit d relationship before he do
2007-04-04 00:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by nataly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
win him the most endearing way, know what he wants, allure him
2007-04-04 00:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by chanz8teen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's an old saying
if you let your bird go and it come's back it's yours
and if it dont hunt that m$#@^%^ er f^^&&^$er down and kill it
2007-04-04 00:39:49 · answer #10 · answered by black hood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋