Legaly in most states its 16 is legal for sex but moraly what age do you think is right? and I want to propose to my girlfriend in a few months I'll be 19 and she'll be 17 we probably won't get married intill I'm like 21 and she turns 19 do you think that is to young?
2007-04-04 00:22:43 · 12 answers · asked by eclipsefreak 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are already sexually active for the last 4 or 5 months we are just couriouse what others think, we are not religiouse so sex after marrage is the last thing we care about.
2007-04-04 00:27:12 · update #1
trust me here in North Carolina we can have sex like jack rabbits and honestly no cop or state official can do a thing about it, her mom can do something about it like never let me see her again but honestly he mom knows that we are active so she could care less, my parents are the same way.
2007-04-04 00:32:57 · update #2
It's not what we think or anyone else for that matter. Everyone has a different opinion on "when the time is right" for everything. It's how the both of you feel and what you think. Do you believe you both are mature enough to handle the responsibility of marriage and sex? If so, then why care what others think. If your in love, enjoy your time together, cherish each other. It's wonderful to be young and in love. I know plenty of high school sweethearts that are still married and their situation isn't much different than yours, just their situations are years ago( and that was when it was really taboo). Have fun when you can and love who you want.
2007-04-04 09:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by supasary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a person is mature enough to handle the problems associated with a sex life. Pregnancy, std's and respect and lack of respect as well as extreme jealousy and manipulation are all signs and reasons to be careful before jumping into a sex life.
To get married, a couple must find out if their ambitions and their goals are the same. Financial stability has a lot to do with a marriage. If you can't support a small household on your own, then don't do it. There is nothing worse than living at moms w/ yr. spouse. There are many problems associated with multi-family dwellings. If you are asking, you are probably not ready. Oops, sorry, I was just lucky I guess. I almost married twice while I was very young. Now, I am glad I waited. When I made the decision to get married, I knew i was ready and did not ask anybody any questions. On the two prior occasions, I was asking everyone for their opinion.
2007-04-04 07:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by Danver 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm...like eating the cake before it got baked!!
Try eating the cake after it got baked!!!
There is a time and space for everything, even for your most intimate encounters...the ages you mentioned do not look too young to me...but it would have been great if you had built more on the emotional and mental side than the physical side...it is easy to get physical but to reach a level of maturity emotionally is pretty difficult and only time and experience can give you that...
lets just say...do you feel more gratified when u were hungry and then well fed or when u were not?!
Anyway...you have already begun experimenting...my only concern would be if you got 'bored' with each other...(that is where the emotional angle comes in!)
The best time to get married or even romantically involved is when a person crosses this emotional quotient rather than age!
2007-04-04 07:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Cyrene J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not to young. it all depends on how much you love each other and if you both agree that this is what you want and where you want to take ur relationship then age shouldnt be an issue. i mean obviously udont get married at 12 but i think you know what i mean, getting ingaged is a good idea and wiating a couple of yeasrs for the marrage! then you have time between incase god forbid anything goes bad....
2007-04-04 07:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont. My brother was 19 and his gf 16 and he proposed when she was 17 and he was 20. 16 is a good age to have sex.
2007-04-04 07:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say 16 is too young. I was 14 when I started and that was definetly too soon. I know Im gonna kill my daughter if shes having sex before 17. And I also think that is too young to get married, you should wait til your in your mid to late 20s.
2007-04-04 07:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by angel187_25 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u r just about fine u have Ur own thinking and good too. normally 18 is the legal age 4 sex this side u have to check up in Ur country or else it may turn out that ur raping only
2007-04-04 07:30:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
around 16 is a good age to have sex. i don't think anyone younger than 16 needs to be having sex. no you guys aren't too young to get married.
2007-04-04 07:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Pea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right age to have sex is 18 and to marry is 25...to retire is 50 and to die is 75.
to flirt is 13, to kiss is 16..what else do you wanna know>?
2007-04-04 07:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by chanz8teen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i believe that you can hve sex after marriage. but since that doesnt really apply to you, and i dont think thats too young as long as you know that you will forever be intertwined with her for the rest of eternity. so know what youre getting into.
2007-04-04 07:31:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋