I spent the weekend with him (he lives 250miles) away. I told him I really liked him to the point where I may have feelings of love for him, he replied with "That's good!" enthusiasically. I had a great weekend and then came back, and he's acting distant e.g We often chat on MSN messenger, 3 times in a row, I've initiated the conversation but he's replied wit "I'm eating, I'll be back in 5mins" ten mins pass and still no response!. What do I do in this situation? Shall I back off and wait for him to contact me? or act like everything is normal? please help?
2007-04-04 00:01:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to lose him, I have the feeling he really likes me, but he has a tendency to act distant and it drives me crazy, so I start nagging and then he pulls back even more!
2007-04-04 00:02:47 · update #1
well, if he pulls out, you wont get pregnant
2007-04-04 00:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somehow i felt that your boyfriend is seeing someone now. or maybe he is never serious in this relationship and you start telling him that you love him, etc. A man who is not ready to commit a relationship is mostly does that and slowly wants to draw a distance. think for yourself. how old you are now? and is he really the right guy for you? if he really loves you that much as you love him. he will not be drawing aline between both of you. He might just felt that you are just another sticky woman wants to tie him down. he is not ready for any commitment in a serious relationship somehow i guess. stay calm. if he is meant for you, he loves you. he will come back and look for you but you must also be careful for that. cos' he has a bad records of giving you a been "dump", silly and sad feeling now and he does nothing.
2007-04-04 00:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by Janep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen sweetheart, i absolutely get ur feelings.....but, if he doesnt care to ur feelings, is it okay to nagging?I mean....u r a girl, u will have to depend on him in so many matters in future...so, if he doesnt care u even now, by nagging u would loose ur weaight-in future, even he marries u, and u wont take care of u, u cant claim then that "why doing this with me?", he will straight answer than, "i didnt call u-u came with ur own responsibility".......so, just dont loose ur weaight, and believe, if he is in ur fate, he will be urs..........give him time and let him realize u....if he doesnt realize what u r for him, nho need to waste ur valuable emotions for him.
2007-04-04 00:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not interested in a serious relationship. Either accept the friends with benefits relationship or move on.
2007-04-04 00:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just leave him for abit and see what happens you dont have to stop likeing him im just saying like if he doesn't respond and is ignoring you he probz has something on his mind or maybe hes not into you
2007-04-04 00:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by TiiNYDOT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop nagging mabye he needs some space
2007-04-04 00:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back off...
2007-04-04 00:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋