how do you cure a burning flame of love between a man and a woman from different religions?

Question

If a man and a woman from different religions met and had an incurable desire or each other, how can they satisfy their lust for each other given that they live in a country where they cannot declare their love for each other because of religious sensitivities?

Should they just satisfy their lust or wait for better circumstances?

Answer 1

you can't...

get over it and find somebody else

Answer 2

Well, I guess I am kind of going against the flow here, but there can be some very bad reprecussions for people from two different religions giving in to "lust." Trust me, been there, done that and got badly burned. I know that passion is powerful and it is easy to see past your differences when you are very attracted to one another, but any moment those differences are going to rear their ugly heads, and usually after it is too late (marriage, children, ostricism from family, or once your heart gets really stuck with the person).

I think the best thing it to be realistic from the beginning. What beliefs do you have that are EXTREMELY important to you? What is sexually acceptable and what is not (faithfulness/unfaithfulness)? What beliefs can you honestly change? And is your partener willing to accept your beliefs or force you to change to meet his/hers? This needs to be addressed immediately within the relationship. If you find yourself hopelessly attracted..you may just have to learn the hard way or you might just get lucky...is it really worth the risk?

Answer 3

I would say, not necessarily. But I do however have a thought for you... How about referring to god in a male context? Peculiar isn't it, that the religious gods of the past were personified so much. Gods of the past? God of the now? I'm going to go out on a limb here... Lets say Civilization has for the most part come to believe that "God", Is one god (monotheism), another large portion of the population believes there is no god, and then there is another (I can only assume) large portion that I don't know much about (cultural religions like Norse, Voodoo, and Greek and so forth). Now, how about those monotheism religions? I know I'm not the only one to notice, but there's a lot of men in those religions... Sure, you got Jesus who sounds like a great guy! I grew up following him I suppose... Him and His Father. I can't tell you all the names of the apostles Jesus had - Bunch of Guys, Thomas was one. How about that religion with all the priests? Bishops? Cardinals? Popes? Lot of men there. I'm not sure what Psalms means... but all those books in the Bible, men. Do they talk about men much in Islam? How about all the stories we've heard about? Prophets, Heroes, Gods? So men and religion... that's what that question stirs up. I actually wondered if woman think much about that...? There's more still! So how does having all these men in religion make any difference? Well... I think it could play a key role in the way society/civilization/cultures are set up. To put in a cosmic perspective: it's probably, a large "contribution",on our evolution as humans. What I think the largest contribution is, is these times now, when it feels as though there is this struggle amongst us. A struggle to recover our humanity. We have strayed so far from what is natural, as an animal, as an organic organism of this planet. Is it Religion that is doing this to us...? The most alarming part (that I have seen) in this struggle, is the massive shift in consciousness about what God means to everyone. There is a lot to be said about this topic, but the alarming part I'm referring to, is the Atheism and how that is evolving. I have nothing against Atheism, I have come to understand what it means, which is the belief that there is no god. This is nothing new. The evolution is alarming, as much of what I see now is people who claim to be Atheist and their conversion takes place on the disbelief in religion. The reason this is alarming to me is because I do believe in God, but I am not religious (another growing population). So there are the shoes in which you must stand. The words men have been writing about "God" for centuries, have separated our understanding from the nature of Life's Existence. In the confusion, many are lost. They lose faith in something greater than themselves. They abandoned their conscious for a mind of reason. Their emotions will start to fade. Their humanity begins to slip. Have they only forgotten what they are? Or are they becoming something else? Beware, The Age of Reason. Be aware. -JS-

Answer 4

well dude if u r a muslim and she is not then i guess that there is no big problem in getting marry, coz it is allowed in islam for men to get marry from females with other religions, yet it is not that favorable. but i personaly advice u to think a while of those kids u r going to have if married, what religion they will follow and practice???? i mean if u care about religion then for sure u r afraid of something (hopefully God not just the problems that will arise from local laws), so just give it a lil thinking about the future, and never go after your lust without marriage.

Answer 5

Even a single person suffering for religion is too many. There are many countries in the world where no one will care what your religion is - find one and move.

Answer 6

Move to Canada. Or even Sweden. Next to America, these countries have the most liberal laws involving religion and sexual expression. Barring certain acts of course.

Answer 7

With Zyprexa (use only as directed, see a Doctor) , it's possible to treat schizoid delusional mental disorders hence getting rid of religious delusions.

Answer 8

You don't "cure" - Suggest they move to a free country - there's a lot of those around, now.

Answer 9

Get married (in some other country, of course). Nothing kills passion like marriage. Trust me.

Answer 10

Wait. Those types of relationships invariably fail. Why risk a child or a sexually transmitted disease to quench your lust?

Answer 11

how about moving to a first-world country?