ok i wrote this song about my father cuz they got a divorce when i was 9 or 10 years old and i felt so angry at my father cuz he used to hit my mom and yelled at her and me and my big brother cuz he came home drunk and all that shiz. my mother knows i want to become a singer and she is my rock but im afriad to show her what i wrote about my father by the way im 13 year's old so... should i wait till im old enough to show her it?? or should i show her right away or should i sing it to her so it could mean more then just a pieace of paper with words on it HELP ME PLEASE BEFORE I HURT HER FOREVER!!
2007-04-03 16:14:32 · 11 answers · asked by James Dean Girl <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
first of all, calm down. second, i think you should show your ma the song. its your feelings and no one can tell you what you feel is wrong. you may want to ask her if its ok to publish it, since she was married to him. ask her what she thinks of the song. im sure its a great song, since all great songs come from the heart. good luck with your songs and singing.
:)
2007-04-03 16:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should put it on hold for a while. Your mom may not have recovered from her divorce with your dad and if you were to sing to her more, it would remind her for the pain again. I think you should shelve it for the time being. Take care.
2007-04-03 23:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety if you even think the song will hurt her than don't show her. You really haven't said why the song would hurt her, so we can't tell you if it would or not.
Follow your heart it knows what to do.
2007-04-04 02:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by Marla D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should see your song. It is only a reflection of your feelings and it should not hurt her forever. It may bring back painful memories, but it was your way of coping. She will probably understand.
2007-04-03 23:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by Shanna h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, go on the topic about the divorce and if she feels really comfterbal to talk about it. Next, if yes, ask her if you can show her..but warn her she can just tell you she doesnt want to. If not, dont use the song
2007-04-03 23:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by whatiscorrect? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion,just show it to her.Just get it over with.Who knows?It may make her feel alot better even though it may remind her of all the bad times,it may just exempt all bad memories from her mind.
2007-04-03 23:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if thier divorced y would she care?
im almost 13 definietly good times
oh and i'd like to read that song too, so type it up under "feedback" when you rick this as best answer
2007-04-03 23:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by KB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold of on it for awhile.....i wrote songs about my family life too and my mom read them and , well it didnt go to well. those are your thoughts just leave them in your song journal, you can let her read them when you are sure the time is right. until then just let it be.
2007-04-03 23:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by Dungonecrazy11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think it might hurt her dont show her the song you made about your father.
2007-04-03 23:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason this will hurt her is because of how it affected you. I would talk to her about it before I showed it to her.
2007-04-03 23:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by cristennamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋