2007-04-03 15:24:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all you can do right now is just trust him. Do you have any evidence supporting that he is cheating on you? Dont jump to conclusions, especially about rumors. Trust him, and if he is cheating on you, the truth will come out and you can kick his a*s later. Good Luck :)
2007-04-03 15:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by Namename 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly,it depends on why you think he is cheating. If you have good evidence, lipstick on his collar , a friends saw him with another girl getting all cuddly. The lose him. You'll be better off. Once a cheater always a cheater, it shows a lack of self control on his part and a lack of respect for you. Now if you think it because of little things you can't put your finger on then you need to make a choice. If you can't function, trust him, then you have to break it off. trust is the key. But if you still have doubt in your mind then you can try to work things out. Does he give good explantions of his behavior? Has this been going on for awhile? ( If it has only been a few days wait it out , a friend of mine thought her husband was cheating cause he was always on the phone evasive about who he was talking to. he always went in the other room or outside. he would leave and lie about where he was going, turned out he was throwing her a suprise birthday party. It was her friends he was on the phone with.) The only person who can tell you the answer is you. Deep down you know if he is cheating or not, it is only if you can search and see the truth. If deep down you really think it, chances are he is.
2007-04-03 22:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by figament 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, very simply, if you feel that he is cheating on you, proof should not be necessary. Then there is the very important issue of him violating your trust. Once broken, I NEVER let a violator have a second opportunity. I manage that by cutting violators out of my life PERMANENTLY.
Unless you like drama and pain, I suggest that you cut him loose and pay no attention to his attempts to reconcile. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-04-03 22:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe him, of course!
NOT!
There's an interesting article I happened to see after I caught my ex- wife cheating on me. I believe it was a "Dear Abby" thing or something like that. Anyway, it listed a whole bunch of "tell- tale" signs that your lover or mate is cheating. If you can track that article down, it will amaze you! It lists stuff like "He/she changes their grooming habits, style of dress, hygiene, walks away when the phone rings, etc..."
The list goes on and on. I went down the list and almost everything on it was describing my ex- wife. I think deep down inside you already know- that's the most telling evidence of all!
2007-04-03 22:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anomaly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is cheating on you, then dump him! Find somebody who truly loves you and you alone! Good Luck!
2007-04-03 22:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should walk away unless you are interested in Aids? The problem is every partner he sleeps with is someone who may be infected with crap you don't want to be infected with and can you trust him, No so move on and find someone who realy cares for you and loves you, losers are not worth our time. take care Heather
2007-04-03 22:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you honestly believe he is lying to you then find out where he may be going when his not with you. either follow him or find someone else who can. However it will be bad if he catches you and his really not doing nayting. You need to find evidence first before you go around spying.
If you cant find nay evidence then you have no reason not to believe him
2007-04-03 22:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him already if you know he is cheating you have already spent 2 minutes of your life its not worth staying there go on with your life we all only have a lifetime to live and when someone is cheating on you its not living go LIVe
2007-04-03 22:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by aggadan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should evaluate your reasoning to why he is cheating on you... if u know for a fact that he is.. its best to not stay with someone that is not respectful or true to you... but if u only suspect that he is.. and he is telling you hes not... you should be able to trust what he says
2007-04-03 22:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by twnkled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IFYOU HAVE PROOF WITH YOUR OWN EYES SEE TEXTS IN PHONES OR TEXTS IN NET ETC OR SEE THEN DROP HIM. i see no maturity for this guy. you dont need this. even if u asked why ya think he will say why he will lie or deny not to hurt u or he wil say becuz of u made him feel bad or some ill thing to hide his hormones.. GUYS!!! get him away
2007-04-03 22:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋