I'm secretly crshing on someone. Most of the time when we talk I'm honest, but I keep thinking I should tell him. I'm so scared he'll hate me for that. I had a crush on him once before too, and it didn't end the way I like it to. Should I be bruitally honest with my friend or hide this and drive myself bonkers wondering what he will think or say. I wanted him to like me but, I just don't know. So what should I do, TELL HIM or NOT TELL HIM.
2007-04-03 15:22:27 · 13 answers · asked by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be afraid to live. By not telling,always being afraid how he'll react etc Why should someone hate you just because you have a crush on them, most would be flattered BUT if he does not feel that way about you then be Mature and accept graciously for its then if you insist on acting dumb that you embarass yourself an he'll start disliking you.Life is short sometimes to know just have to put it out there and see. Getting the most out of life sometimes takes courage.
2007-04-03 15:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, wow... I had the exact same problem. Exactly. I decided to tell my friend how I felt, but he never said anything back. Yeah, it was a pretty embarrassing situation, and still, every time I think about it I blush.
See, I told him that 4 years ago, and I still really like him although I don't go to the same school anymore. But it's not like I'm going to tell him again. lol
I know how annoying it is becuase you're just DYING to know if he might possibly feel the same way, but I don't think I will ever do that again because I thoroughly embarrassed myself. I'd have to go with don't tell him, because I wouldn't want someting that awful to happen to you.
2007-04-03 15:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by swimmer2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
properly u cant truly know if he secretly does lol! cuz it could be a secret yet i think u ought to ensure if he treats her in yet in any different case from the different ladies? like gets worried round her. continuously wanna carry out together with her or purely reveals excuses to chat? yet be careful cuz on occasion men provide fake signs and warning signs like this i propose she tells him she likes him, cuz if he does and perhaps he's waiting she'd have lost her hazard.and if he suggested no, then she didnt lose something besides. u cant lose sth that u dont have and he or she'll recover from it and have a huge gamble to weigh down on somebody else
2016-11-26 00:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, young lady! Other wise,you're jus hurting both him and yourself. One should never do it. Plus, if you don't tell him, he'll never know how you feel about him, and he'll never tell you how he feels about you. You might be the distant candle that he seeks, and he the one you seek. But if the two of you never tell, neither one will ever know. That's selfish torture.
2007-04-03 15:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you tell it may make the friendship weird... But if you really like him I would tell.. He really can't blame you for it. And maybe he likes you back... This is the truths life hold in its weird unraveling mystery
2007-04-03 15:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by J.E.W 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him! even if he doesnt feel the same way!....trust me! i've done it before and i waited 7 years to tell him! after i told him, we remained just friends. but we're still really close. but now i dont go crazy anymore, i feel much better. wish i would have told him years ago!
2007-04-03 15:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by Kimber Gem 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've found always putting the truth out there is the right thing to do.
2007-04-03 21:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by ptcruisher2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't tell your friend cause trust me they will tell someone and they will tell someone else etc.
but you should force him to ask u if u like him
how? well im not sure but it works for me
and it's the easiest way to do it
2007-04-03 15:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
its always great to be pursued by someone, to be safe its always a good sign if a guy asks a girl out, if he wanted you to be his girl , he would have made that move ,guys dont have the patience ....lovers cannot be friends , friends cannot be lovers...
2007-04-03 15:29:08 · answer #9 · answered by Adrian Ramos 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Is he married? If so, is he happily married? If not, you can have him if you tell him. But there will be mess afterwards.
2007-04-03 15:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by krsh28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋