If your boyfriend tells you that you only think about your self what would you do or what would you say???????

Question

My boyfriends says I only think about my self when were mad what does that mean<<<<<<<<<

Answer 1

Well i hope at the moment your mad your thinking about yourself...Just tell him to stop being a baby....No, lol that would make him mad...Ask him what does he expect you to do??? He is actually thinking about himself when he makes that statement...You could just stare at him like he is stupid...I do that to my husband when he makes a dumb statement...

Answer 2

It means that when you're mad, you don't consider his feelings at all and you will say anything hurtful. You only care that you're angry and you want everyone around you to hurt and feel your hurt. You are not capable of getting upset and keeping the feelings to yourself.

Instead of lashing out at your boyfriend when you're mad, calmly tell him that you need to be alone to think about what you're mad about. When you are alone, think about why you are mad. Are you right to be mad at him or are you just be emotional or are you taking out a bad mood on him. If you decide that you shouldn't have gotten mad at him at all, go back and apologize. If you are still mad, try to calmly and rationally discuss it with him instead of yelling. He wants you to grow up and handle disagreements in a more mature way.

If you don't change this, you will drive him away.

Answer 3

I know the normal reaction would be to get defensive and deny what he's saying, but what you should do is take a quiet moment to really evaluate what he's saying. Why and in what context has he said it? Have you hurt him, or he, you? And is there a specific situation he's talking about?
The mature thing to do is discuss the situation and try to work through it. If there's something you're doing that's annoying him, encourage him to be honest and up front about it (cos if ya stew on stuff, it fuels resentment) but make sure he's willing to listen to things you have to say about things that irritate you - after all strong relationships are built on trust, respect, compromise and communication.
Best of luck.

Answer 4

dump the guy
nobody should be that mean including your bf
oh ya i have no clue what he means other than u think about your self to much
good luck
PS don't dump him on the spot warn him, tell him that if he does not shape up u will dump him, and he will probably come running back to u in about 15 min and u can go from there

Answer 5

Hon that means that you are focused on your feelings and what you are going through which is perfect but what do you feel about your partner? and do you show how much you care without making it into something that is all you. Men need our time as much as we do so give him some attention and give it a lot and he will give it to you in return too, take care Heather

Answer 6

Look within. It is possible you are rather selfish. Or, he could just be trying to put some blame on you when you are in the right. When he is right, it is possible you never acknowledge the fact that sometimes YOU are wrong and not him.

Answer 7

I would say someone has to , you do not think of me all like that ! Then I would say I must think of you sometimes cause you ate today you got clean clothes you got the house cleaned you got clean towels and etc ...

Answer 8

it means he thinks you are a bit tad on yourself and think about yourself. He wants attention ask about him hows he today ?what he is thinking? girls have a tendancy to make conversations all about their day and what their gf says etc they need to be heard.. and i hear him.. he is saying your all about you.. so pay attention to him say i really dont know what ya mean or want but i want to know what ya think about things come over well talk and listen to him all night if need be give him sugar.. let him feel special.. listen to him.

Answer 9

thats exactly what he means. you only think about yourself. maybe you should talk to him and tell him that your sorry and ask him what you could do to try to be better? i'm not saying you are, but if he thinks so, you need to find out why he thinks that.

Answer 10

Well... think about it... could it be true? If you think about it and agree with him, then you might want to apologize. If it is not true, then he should not be saying that about you and maybe you should rethink his motives... maybe he's just trying to make you feel guilty for things that you shouldn't...