Me and my boyfriend have been going out for six months. When I first met him he had a job but not all that great of one. One month later he quit and decided that he wanted a better job. Then, two months down the road he finds an okay job better paying than the last one. He's been there for about 2 months now and all he does it work. Even on his days off he works and I barely get to see him. To make matters worse he doesn't have his own apartment he lives with his aunt so he doesn't even have is own room. So we always have to like chill in the car. ( yeah very sad to say) The reason why i'm questioning his love for me is because i asked him to spend time with me on easter, and to go with me to my grandfather's grave site cause i didn't want to go alone. He promised me he would and when i asked him two days later he said oo I'm sorry i HAVE to work overtime. But no one has to work overtime unless they want to. So i just feel if someone loved you they would be there for you. Or is it me?
2007-04-03 15:03:44 · 5 answers · asked by starlight2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is not ready for all that heavy commitment of what ur giving him. grave is something personal for gods sake why would he care.. not exactly a gr8 time to spend.. ur to fast men care abotu booty or their own needs. 1st most of the wrong kind that is.. maybe he dont want to socialize with family.. just yet.. he dont love u like u love him but im sure he cares but the test was just given?????
2007-04-03 15:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might say you need to give him a choice of either he needs to make some postive choices about doing something for himeself , I mean how can he be good for you if he can not even keep a Job, sounds to me like he dont like to take orders from his bosses. Or he just don tlike to work. I would think about maybe moving on. I no sometimes we fall in love with the wrong persons, But if you continue to stay with him like this it is only going to get worse. I would check him out and maybe see what he is doing If he is alwasy working and never has time for you make sure someone else isnt getting that time. GOOd LUck
2007-04-03 22:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by babycakes3557 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way you should be happy that he is a hard worker, tells me that he can be responsible person as well. I think give him more time to get out of his normal routines.
He is at least trying to spend time with you.
Love is about giving and taking. You cant expect to have something and when you dont get it , then it doesnt mean that is not love.
He is just loving you the way he could love you.
Over time you guys can dicsuss over this, dont complain to him what you want, rather just tell him that you need him at certain times and it would really be special if he could be there for you.
Dont demand too much ,,,,,love grows over time when you can accept him and he accepts you in all situations.
Dont feel unaccepted too easily coz guys normally think differently than woman... .
Gluck
2007-04-03 22:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anne H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm, you have been with this guy for only six months. Now, if you guys have been together for 6 years, then yeah, be concern abt him loving you. I personally, this is a poor way to incorporate him into your life. I think you are expecting too much too soon. Take your time, don't do serious things like live your dead grandfather, that is what friends and family are for.
2007-04-03 22:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine23511 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a loser for not being able to afford his own place, and he's insensitive by working overtime (to get more money) instead of going to the grave with you. The dude can't win. Its you.
2007-04-03 22:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by ChrisVandelay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋