Please answer.......how to kill my hope?

Question

am so in love with this guy. I was stupid and should have known better but I fell anyway. (we had a casual relationship....still going on but it has to end soon cuz its killing me)
I can't stop thinking about him, and what I could have said or done to make him like me better. I can't stand to think about him liking other girls and the thought of him dating them makes me want to cry. Because I just want him to think and feel that way about me.

I know how he feels because he has never said he wanted anything other than what we had..I guess a FWB....(this is why they don'usually work. he has not led me on...he is a great guy and I don't blame him at all I know all that but part of me won't let go of the hope that he will suddenly realize that he does love me. I know its not gonna happen but my heart won't listen and it hurts. How do I force my heart to face reality? How do I kill the hope that i can ever have anything more with him? How do I stop loving him?

Answer 1

Feelings and emotions are like a marriage.You need a divorce.You have to separate the first from the second.Easy in the words hard in reality.However,you must be strong.You must be full with determination and the commitment to end from the hart this relationship.Is not easy and takes time.Don't be depress.Try to see other people.Don't be alone.See places.Have fun.Think about him in the negative way.This also help.Good luck.