i have been seeing a bloke nothing serious but we seemed to be getting on well but walking through the town centre today i saw him walking hand in hand with another girl he never saw me and i want to get him back badly and make him feel stupid any ideas please?
2007-04-03 10:56:10 · 20 answers · asked by billbessrocks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do a tracie barlow special, kill him! lol, only joking.
2007-04-03 11:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by buffykim2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, first of all narrow down the reasons for your anger. After you have done that, I would suggest you find out if you guys made an exclusive agreement to not see other people while dating. Is there anything wrong with seeing multiple people at the same time - if there has been no agreement at all with the party you are going out with that while engaging in dating with you he cannot see other girls? I mean, are you his girlfriend or something??
To me, it sounded like you were just out on a first date. Unless he slept with you..i mean, even then, it is still not cool to ask him to stop seeing other girls because you have a crush on the guy. If you didnt tell him that sleeping with you was an agreement to be completely and exclusively dating only you, then you really have no grounds upon which to formulate a revenge plan.
If he told you: i love you, etc, and made up a bunch of lies like a slimy rat, pertaining to him being single handedly committed to you only, then you have a reason to be mad.
My commentary comes from the fact that i used to get upset when girls talked to other guys after i went out with them. But then i started thinking: hey, she is not my girlfriend, i havent told her i like her enough to just date her only, and she hasnt told me anything like that either. Its all fair game.
It could all be miscommunication. He might think its cool to go out with other girls casually while not dating you. IF he is lying and trying to play you, then i understand your anger.
If he is a liar and a player: the best thing is to tell him you found someone else that fits your needs, tell him that you think he is despicable and why, and dont call him again.
Believe me, the angrier you get and the crazier your antics is only going to increase his ego a thousand percent. Men love to talk about how this crazy girl went crazy cause she found out i was dating this other girl, etc. It only helps our ego and doesnt change who we are. It really helps out our manhood and encourages us to continue acting the same.
Now, if you want to help him be even more of an arrogant, selfish, ratty, slimy, despicable bastard and give him a smile on his face because you showed him how angry you got that he was spending time with another girl and he lied to you, then go ahead and take revenge.
The best thing for you in this situation: show him he is not important as much as possible; the best way is to just tell him its over, tell him he hurt your feelings by lying, end of story. dont answer his calls, dont talk to him anymore after this. Strictly.
if you have already decided that this guy is a jerk, which is obvious to me from what you wrote, then would it really be worth it for him to know that you are angry at him?
I mean, if you think the guy is a deuche, then why are you going to compliment his ego by getting angry?
2007-04-03 18:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Donna M has the right answer.
Get on with your life.
They say revenge is sweet but it doesn't empower you. The most soul-destroying thing you can do to him is to show that you are in control of your own life.
Go for it. Show him that you are worthy of respect and find someone better.
2007-04-03 18:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by tringyokel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have slept with him. Tell him that a previous partner has been in touch with you to say that he had a STI. There are no syptoms for this STI so your bloke has to go to the clinic for swabs to check.. You never guess where they stick the giant cotton bud ouch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
It's his fault he should have been honest with you.
2007-04-03 18:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by Tyanna-Daisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sounds like the best thing to do get revenge BUT hes not worth it hun, tell yourself your better then that, get on with your life forget about him
good luck
2007-04-03 18:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥™Tia™♥♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him, his calls and blank him. He wont know what hes done. Have him running round in circles and begging you to tell him why?
Then tell him you will go out and don't.
Then just ignore him all over again. Don't give him any chances, he will only do it again, your lucky in a way really at least you caught yourself a rat.
2007-04-03 18:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by Spike 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
say nothing just move on! totally blank him! although revenge may be sweet it will just make you bitter! my guy cheated on me and i am just blanking him at the moment. I will let him know this weekend its over (see my Q on reading his text) you are better than that! i am hurting too but at least we know what we were dealing with. good luck!!!!!!
2007-04-03 18:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
4get him and get on wuth your life,hes not worth the air he breathes and any form of revenge is just lowering yourself to his level,be the bigger person and be cool when you see him next and save yourself 4 someone that truely deserves you
2007-04-03 18:08:48 · answer #8 · answered by lees 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you women have to be so vindictive....i thought you said it was nothing serious so why are you stressing about it..and i bet from now on you will be calling all men pigs or something....you need to get over yourself and worry about more important things in your life..
2007-04-03 18:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by Jedi Master 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't - he's not worth it - just learn from the experience and move on - he might have been cheating on the other girl with you!
2007-04-03 18:08:46 · answer #10 · answered by saddo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgetting about him and showing him what he lost would be the most lasting revenge
2007-04-03 19:14:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋