should i ask her out?

Question

i sit next to her in english and near her in tech. we are friends and she knows im real.shy kid of quiet and has the prepy friends that im friends with that talk out loud if u know what i mean. im thinking of calling her friend to see if she will ask her out for me but i the friend tells me she said no thats not going to be a good day at school.and if i ask her out before homeroom then it will be weird since i sit next to her knowing that i just ask her out.or i should wait for a better time and maybe blow it.PLEASE HELP

Answer 1

What a tough life. Ask her, don't ask her, does anybody out here care?

Answer 2

Ask her, you seem to really like her, but are afraid. That is sometimes a very good thing. If you have a mutual friend, try going to the movies together, kind of easing your way close to her. Or this may sound silly to you, but place a note in a envelope with rose petals, and ask her that way. I am curious to know does she speak to you or is it always about school or homework. She may like you and are waiting for you to ask, but do not take too long, someone else may ask her then it will be your loss. You only live once.

Answer 3

You're still young, so don't worry too much about girls. Focus on school first. But if you really want to ask her out, then don't ask her friend to ask her for you. You have to do it yourself. If she says no, so what? It's her loss, not yours. Believe in yourself. Remember not to take it personally. For every question that requires a yes or a no, there's an equal chance of either answer. Just think of it that way, and move on. There're other girls especially once you get older. If you act confident, that's attractive to girls.

Answer 4

If you want to wait until right before a test that week you can casually say "Do you want to help me study at the coffee shop"? it's a good way to be platonic and have enough time to know if she likes you and will say yes to being asked out on a more formal date.

Answer 5

well first of all don't have her friend as her out for you, i know you're scared, but it looks childish on your behalf. Ask her out at the end of the school day, if you just did it and quit thinking and preparing for it, you'd be much less nervous believe me. There's no better time than the present!

Answer 6

Just ask her out! What's there to lose? If she likes you back, great! If not, you don't want to be with that snob. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Hurry up before someone else grabs your Nemo. I hope this helps.

nicole

Answer 7

Whatever you do, don't go through the friend. Try to hang out outside of class, it may be hard, but while you're hanging ask her out. You may be really nervous when trying, but that would be the best way.

Answer 8

How cute, write her a note along with some choclates and a carnation or a rose. Leave it in her locker or in her seat in the classroom.

Answer 9

Listen you really should just tell her you like her see her reaction if it seems okay then ask her out girls like it when guys like them most of the time it flatters them and gives them self confidence trust me just let her know

Answer 10

Have the courage to ask her out yourself, girls/women really like confidence in a male... Good luck

Answer 11

trust your heart. if you think before homeroom is a good time then ask. you can't trust everyone's intentions. what they may think applies and feels right to them will probably be different for you.