Ok there is this guy i like and i am pretty sure he likes me bak but ive waited too long 4 him 2 ask me. I am pretty sure he likes me b/c he always tryies 2 get my attention by making random conversations up, leaning his head on me sometimes, always sitting next 2 me, when i walk in the halls he comes up behind me nd pulls my bag bak 2 get my attention etc. Also our friends see that we flirt a lot i dont realize it but i guess we do. He wont ask me out b/c he is too shy 2 ask me. But how can i ask him out like i will ask him if i new wat 2 do. Tell me how u asked ur b/f or g/f out it will help me in how i should approach him. Thx a lot xoxoxoxo
2007-04-03 10:13:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go to him and ask him how he's doing. If he's in a bad mood try to make him feel better. If he's in a good mood and smiles at you, that's the good sign. Don't be nervous, so just incase practice it out on a friend. A boy or a girl. (boy is better) If he's too shy maybe he'll probably make an excuse to leave. To avoid this, make him feel a little comfortable around you, make him laugh or something like that. Before "asking him out" make sure you guys have something in common so you could talk about in during your date. Talk to him for like 15 minutes. Tell him you have to go then he goes home. Make sure you have his phone number, call him and ask. Don't just go, "I LIKE YOU WANNA GO OUT??!?" Say it in the calmest way you can, then express your feelings to him on how you were so anxious going on a date with him. A trip to the movies is a great way to say how you feel. Or even dinner. You might never kno, he'll ask you out again, our ask you to be his gf.
2007-04-03 10:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not just go on a casual date...with a couple of other people or just out to eat so you can just talk and get to know each other for real. Right now you are both just dancing around, skirting the issue and not dealing with your hormones. Get to know him as a friend and move on from there. When he is comfortable with you that way, he will be able to ask you out.
2007-04-03 10:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, just ask. A closed mouth don't get fed. Only thing he can do is say yes or no. If he make a scene because he don't want to go out with you, label him as a jerk and move on.
2007-04-03 10:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by Antonio J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋