So I broke up with a younger guy a month ago now, and after thinking it was the worst thing possible. Realize now how bloody miserable I was in the end. Now I’m dating someone else, my age. The only thing is, he was married at 22 and divorced by 24, because he married someone after nine months of dating. They had nothing in common, and well she cheated on him. Then they tried, but he couldn’t let what happened go. So they divorced. That was 4 years ago.
Its so messed up, I feel like I’ve known him for a lot longer than we actually have. We just started dating, but he was asking about me even before I dumped my ex. And I will admit I was interested before we broke up as well. Every thing feels so right, it’s utterly SCARY!
I have a horrible habit of trying to run away from things in relationships that scare me, but when I tried with this guy. He totally called my bluff. He totally calls me out on things I do. The negative and the good.
2007-04-03 10:04:49 · 9 answers · asked by nkbapbt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He made me dinner the other night and extra for lunch the next day. He loves my dog and vice versa. It’s like all too good to be true.
I can’t think of one thing I don’t like about him.
But the divorced thing does weird me out a little. Any advice to dating a divorced guy?
And am I nuts to feel this way so soon?
I really mean when I say looking back my last relationship had been over for a year or so already. I just didn’t love him anymore. And now having the opposite side of the dating coin, I can’t believe I stayed so long. I was a FOOL!
This is crazy, but a part of me thinks he could be the one. I know it's nuts. But it was just like instant connection.
2007-04-03 10:05:49 · update #1
Then you my dear have nothin to really be worried about! You need to relax....this could be really good for you. Just don't get tooooo overly excited and think about gettin married. This moment right her is for both of you to heal and grow.....2gether! So relax and enjoy. And don't cheat on eachotha becuz that brings more unnescessary pain...
Like alwayz GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-04-03 10:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by *Suga* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh stop it. Both of you have just gotten out of a relationship and now you are both on the rebound. Stop panicking and grabbing the first warm body that walks by. Have you ever NOT been with someone? Can you be by yourself - say for at least a year - without dating? Remember, it isn't a choice if you can't say no.
IF this relationship is right - and that's a big 'if' given both of your track records - then time will tell. If the relationship is right, it will stand the test of time. And if the relationship were right, you would not have to poll strangers on the internet - you'd know it.
2007-04-03 10:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by D 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why question the good? dont ever look back it doesn't solve anything and because he is divorse means he is going to be extra carful this time, so don't worry about that and look at all the good in what your relationship has for you now, enjoy live live and be happy take care Heather
2007-04-03 10:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's turning the tables on you!!! Now she is enjoying the irritating to get place. yet she is a mom and could no longer go with to get into something with out being specific you're in it for the long-term. it truly is going to take time in case you're prepared I wager she is truly somewhat worth the wait!
2016-11-25 23:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that saying "fools rush in" well - sounds like he did not learn with his first marriage. Take your time and make sure - it's always wonderful in the beginning of a relationship.
2007-04-03 10:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorced guys are okay stop sweating that and you are not nuts, just let whatever happens happen and be happy about it.
2007-04-03 10:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are nuts. You are on the rebound and so is he. No good can come of this so break up with him and call a good therapist.
2007-04-03 10:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by e_d_ellis2004 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good luck!
2007-04-03 10:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not reading all of that, all i have to say is rebound.
2007-04-03 10:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋