My wife came home the other day and she was all dressed up for work. It was a beautiful day and since she knew it she wore a dress and got all decked out. When she came home her hair was messed up and she seemed a little sweaty. Again is was a warm day and she likes riding with the windows and sunroof open. However, I got freaked out when we started fooling around. I was using my fingers on her and noticed when I pulled them out that they were extremely soaked with a slimy/milky substance that looked like something to be concerned with. I accused her of cheating on me, but she swears she didn't. She says that she believes that the substance all over my hand was that she is at her ovulation time (she is in between periods) and that her body must be producing some kind of ovulation substance very heavy this month. She said that I need to learn more about a woman's body. I only know that we been together for 2 1/2 years and I never had that kind of discharge on my hand before, please help
2007-04-03 08:41:03 · 22 answers · asked by david 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen to your gut! it sounds like she was cheating...take notice of the little things if she has a cell phone is she trying to hide it........is she getting home from work late when normally she doesn't.............ask questions after the fact like if she is late monday on friday ask a question that deals with her being late on monday (indirectly that is)if the answer changes she is not telling the truth and you need to get to the bottom of it
ex. oh babe monday how was that meeting (make sure your face to face when you ask if she mummbles= liar)
2007-04-03 08:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't freak out some women do discharge like that. I know I do sometime. It doesn't happen every month but it does happen. Has your wife ever gave you the idea before that she has cheated on you. If not then believe her. Also for her dressing up for work every woman likes to feel pretty now and then.
2007-04-03 15:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she might be cheating. If the substance wasn't from her being very aroused (and you'd recognize that after being together for over 2 years), and she doesn't have any infections, I'm at a loss to explain it other than she may be cheating.
Ugh, she could have at least cleaned up first!
2007-04-03 15:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by thatsit4theother1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, a woman's body does produce strange things sometimes, but if you have never seen it after 2 1/2 years that does not seem good. Are you concerned it was semen? If she was really cheating on you I doubt she would let you put your fingers there right after...
2007-04-03 15:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by kitmandoo22 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I HIGHLY doubt your wife would let you touch her if she had another man's semen inside her. Maybe she got all hot and bothered on the way home thinking that you would be attracted to her since she was decked out and started the party by herself before arriving home. Women get very aroused during ovulation.
2007-04-03 15:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by nursegrl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't jump to conclusions just based on that. Women's bodies can create some pretty strange substances. I would guess if she had cheated earlier in the day she would not have let you go near her in that way...just a hunch.
2007-04-03 15:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by ♫ Sweet Honesty ♫ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'd give her the benefit of the doubt this time since a woman who has just cheated on her husband isn't likely to jump to have sex with him when she gets home. Someone would have to be rather stupid to not clean themselves up before coming home.
2007-04-03 15:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth N 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she has never given you reason to question her behavior before then I would trust what she's telling you is true...some womens bodies do produce discharge when ovulating.
2007-04-03 15:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Start doing a little research on your own about the female body. Do it on your own privately, you may find out some things men just don't know.
2007-04-03 15:46:26 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it can be she's ovulate or it can be because of the weather that day and the type of pantie she wear make it more sweating down there. i have both of that thing happen to me in Summer long time ago but know it bad so i change all my undies type of material and buy what my doctor recommended for my health.
2007-04-03 15:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋