why do women come up with a million excuses when they are caught with their pants down ?
I find it hard to just forgive and act like nothing happened .
I think i am ready to move on and call it a day on her a$$ .
2007-04-03 07:52:14 · 13 answers · asked by jeffadelic 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is never a good reason why people cheat. They just need to fess up and admit the fuc@ed up and stop making exucses.. As far as if you take them back or not.. That depends on you and her.. Are you willing to deal with it and put it beind you?? To act as if it never happend and just move on is unrealistic to do. She has to realize there are consequences to her actions if you stay with her or not.. Trust has been broken and it is up to her to earn it back but you have to be willing to let her too.. If you know you can't deal with it then you need to leave. If I were you I would have to leave. I can't be with somebody I can't trust and not sure if I would be willing to work on it after they disrespected me in that way. But it is all on what you can handle.
2007-04-03 08:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Should you forgive a cheating girlfriend ?
why do women come up with a million excuses when they are caught with their pants down ?
I find it hard to just forgive and act like nothing happened .
I think i am ready to move on and call it a day on her a$$ .
2015-08-14 15:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already have the right idea. There's no excuse if you do that you clearly don't respect or what to be with that person any longer.
Just dump her and move on. I hope she suffers for doing this to you.
2007-04-03 07:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by UnTrace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been disrespected and humiliated in the worst possible way. It's time to kick her to the curb and move on and find a girlfriend who will be true to her commitment.
2007-04-03 08:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... it depends, if its the first time she has ever cheated on someone, then yes forgive... she might of tried it out for the first time and is now regreting it...
if you really really love her, then forgive her
but if she has had a history of doing it, then let her go
2007-04-03 07:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by Killed_Nemo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she'll do it again, forgiving her will let her think (know) she can get away with it. Girls are just like guys when it comes to that sh*t
2007-04-03 07:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by Mike C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah move on you don't need to put up with that ****. Go find a girl who doesnt cheat on you
2007-04-03 07:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by joe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
would she forgive you? how long have you been dating? if you love her and she still loves you, I'd say "yes - and forgive." Otherwise you'll end up with a sexually transmitted disease if you keep her...good luck mate.
2007-04-03 07:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by John F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt forgive somone who cheated by having sex, but i did forgive my b/f for kissing another girl...it's hard but you have to decide if she is really sorry and if she is worth it...but make sure she is on her hands and knees cleaing your feet with her tounge..lol
2007-04-03 07:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lovley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has done it more than once. I was going to say, giving her a second chance depends on you, but twice...tell her goodbye.
2007-04-03 07:58:38 · answer #10 · answered by surffsav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋