Would it be better to get a male kitten or a female kitten?

Question

I want a kitten and i am wondering if a female or male is better! and i am taking name suggestions too!

Answer 1

Females are easier to litter box train and they never spray. They are also easier and less expensive when it comes to having them fixed.
How about Bella?

Answer 2

Well, assuming you're going to do the responsible thing and get the kitten fixed, neutering a male kitted is easier than spaying a female kitten, and therefore a lot less expensive.

I don't know if there's necessarily a huge difference in personalities based solely on gender - I've seen bold female cats and timid males...and vice-versa. If you get the cat fixed, then you usually avoid a lot of the unwanted behaviors (urinating around the house, fighting, etc).

The best thing to do is go to the kitten adoption place and pick out a kitten that responds well to you, is playful, looks healthy, and has the attributes of appearance that you like. I'm sure you'll be happy with him or her! Just don't forget the food & water, cleaning the litter box, treats, regular vet visits, and a scratching post!

Answer 3

My experience as an owner of up to 6 kitties at one time is it really doesn't matter. What do you want? I've had extremely loveable male cats and a really stand-offish female (she really doesn't like these other cats here, even though they've been together for almost 10 years!). When I adopted my first one from a shelter, I had planned on a short-haired female and came home with a long-haired male (who turned out to be a beautiful, lovable Maine Coon). He was the one who crawled on my shoulder and connected with me; so I'd suggest doing the same. Go to a shelter and see who you're drawn to. There's a lot of wisdom in the adage "cats pick you, you don't pick cats." Go with your heart and you'll find the purr-fect one for you.

By the way, if you do decide on a male, orange Tabby's are some of the most gentle, lovable and funny kitties I've ever owned. But then again, so was my Maine Coon.

Go for the love, and you'll find the best choice for you!

P.S. Female cats can and sometimes do also spray, just not as frequently as males. Spraying is a learned behavior and if stressed (like too many male cats or too much fighting for Alpha position), males can be prompted to spray when they otherwise haven't.

Answer 4

This is a difficult question to answer. It’s a matter of choice. My experience has been that female cats tend to be more docile and reserved, even to the point of not wanting to be pet. Where as my experience with male cats have been the opposite. No matter which you get, its is best to get them "fixed" and a male cat, due to the external nature of his equipment, will be much less trouble and cost to "fix". Also if done by 6 months old, this will curb any undesirable matting behavior such as spraying or howling, escaping etc. He will simply resign himself to being a loyal lap cat. My ladies, once fixed, always resigned to hiding under beds until nighttime. Breed can also be a factor in cat behavior so you may want to research that as well.

Answer 5

I have had both, and I find that I prefer boys. I have had both my males and females fixed, and find that my males are very affectionate, playful and have good personalities, while the females that I had were usually more independent, sometimes would bite if they didn't want to be touched, but were very good about knowing when I was sad. As for names, they usually literally fell out of my mouth one day when i was palying with them. My boys are named Huzaboo and Goobie. My female was named Kashka, which is supposed to be russian for "cat".

Answer 6

I adopted a male and a female kitten, they are brother and sister. They are the most adorable little fuzzballs you could imagine.

But, the boy cat is friendlier. The lil girl will let you pat her, but she'll skittle off and hide under the bed when you approach.

"This is Bob Barker reminding you to help control the pet population! Have your pets spayed or neutered. Goodbye everybody!"

Answer 7

I would get a male, but get him fixed! If the males are not fixed then he will spray and pretty much be a tom cat of the neighborhood! Female cats are ok, but they have more of a attitude just let me be a cat and leave me alone! The males are more sweet, in my opion! Good Luck!

Answer 8

well it depends on if you are goin to want some more kittens in the future.'cause if you do then get a female kitten but if you don't then get a male kitten.

male name:rasco

female name: nori

Answer 9

I just got a male rescue. I've had cats for 30 years and always had females. I thought they were friendlier and didn't mark as much and were just in general easier. But my Boo is such a sweetheart. He is huge and muscular but sooo affectionate. I just love him to death. His name is Boo because he was so timid as a kitten - and still is. I name my cats for something in their personality.

Answer 10

I must definitely say a female would be better. Males get really wild in their mating seasons. A female cat would be more loving.

Answer 11

I've always had male cats and tend to prefer them- they are quite crazy sometimes but also very affectionate.

Whatever you get, make sure you get it spayed or neutered! Male cats tend not to spray after they've been neutered. I've never had a male cat spray because they've all been fixed.