My exboyfriend and I have broken up...?

Question

I love him but not like I used to. I just want him to see what he's missing out on because I really do think I'm a good catch for a woman nowadays. I'm loyal, smart, pretty, so how do I make him want me? I just want him to feel like a fool for breaking up with me. Any ideas?

Answer 1

confused at your question....why do you want to make him want you if you dont love him like you used to?

Answer 2

Hi Jammy,

It seems you don't know what you want. I say that because you said you want him back and also you want him to PAY for leaving you. You also say that you don't love him the same way as you used to. If I were you I would just relax, stay in touch with him as friends until you can figure out what you really do want. How and why did you both break up and whose idea was it? That plays an important role in relationship failure. Please don't rub his face in it for leaving you because if you do you'll never get him back. Sometimes guys leave because they feel that they are missing something. Give him a chance to see what he is missing. Don't put it in his face. Have fun, go out and enjoy your new found freedom. If he wants you back...he will come around. Just reassure him that you care and love him but you won't wait for him. If and when he sees you having fun and going out with other men that may help him realize how much he misses and cares for you. That is why you don't want to hurt him. If you do ..he may NEVER come back. Hope this helps. BLUEBUNNY

Answer 3

You are doing the right thing for all the wrong reasons.

He is your ex-boyfriend for good reason. If you know that you are loyal, smart, and pretty, then take these attributes to your next relationship.

What your trifling ex-boyfriend thinks is irrelevant. If you still CARE about what your ex-boyfriend thinks, then that means you are still attached to him (whether mentally, emotionally, spiritually, etc.).

You already know he is a fool beyond a shadow of a doubt. You don't need a successful relationship to validate that truth.

Answer 4

When you are trying to MAKE someone want you...it never works. You can't make a man WANT to be with you. He is either going to do it or he is not. If you ignore him and go on about your business like the breakup hasn't really phased you any, you are likely to get a greater response. But why are you wasting your time anyway? People become Ex's for a reason and if you are supposed to be together, you would not have to make him want to be with you. Good luck

Answer 5

You go on with your life. That is the best way to make him feel like a fool. If you act desparate and try to make him want you, it will just backfire. Good luck.

Answer 6

Just move on, find someone new and you'll eventually run into him, don't waste time and energy trying to make someone feel a certain way, it'll only hurt you later on down the road.

Answer 7

I think you need to grow up. If you aren't still in love with him, wanting him to love you is ridiculously selfish. If you really thought you were such a catch you wouldn't need validation from that guy.

Answer 8

Go get a makeover. Get your hair done, buy new clothes, just look goregous. That should work. He gets what he deserves without hurting anyone.

Answer 9

get over him...dun play the immature ex girlfreind and try to make him want you. if your as good as you think you are why don't you go get a new boyfreind and seriousely just get over the guy

Answer 10

How about asking him what he wants in a girlfriend? Maybe he just wants someone who is supportive of him.