I really like this guy and well i thought he really liked me too. He has told me before that he doesn't want a girlfriend and then it got serious. We started seeing eachother as much as possible and we eventually made out. He calls me everyday but last wednesday i went on a trip to corpus and ever since then he hasn't called me. Last night i texted him to see what he was doing and he was like WHAT! i told him i was sorry i had been bothering him and he said yea. He started telling me that i was bothering and that he didn't care if we stopped talking. I asked him why and he said no reason. I couldn't believe it. He never acts this way and i tried to see hwat was wrong with him but he wouldn't tell me and he said for me to stop caring and get over it. I just don't get it one day he's making out with me and the next he wants me to go away.
2007-04-03 03:04:47 · 20 answers · asked by shortyrosas2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just make him jelous by making out with a lobster
2007-04-03 03:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by chris b 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
UGH... that happened to me too just a few weeks ago. But it was after he told me he LOVED me. I think in your case, he's either scared of his feelings for you and when you left he was like "wow, I must have really been into her to be talking to her so much and making out with her, etc." maybe he just got scared. Men are that way. If they feel like they can't handle their feelings they will push you away so that they don't get hurt. At least that's what I've experianced. Or, after making out with you, he realized it's not what he wanted. I would bet it's the first reason though, men are strange sometimes. I would just give him space and time. If he really likes you, he'll come around.
2007-04-03 10:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he needs some counselling. IF he is telling you since you returned from your trip to corpus......perhaps he met someone else...OR has thoughts in his own head of you doing something while you were away.........either way.....he has no right to mistreat you this way. If he's told you that You're Bothering him.and he doesn't care if you stopped talking.....and to tell you to Stop Caring and Get Over It*........then perhaps you should do as he is requesting....Stop Talking to him! Stop trying to care! and just "get over it"......I'm sure when you do this.......he will change his tune again and start phoning you again wondering WHY you're not calling anymore and you can tell him "you've stopped caring..and you're getting over it just as he asked you to" Tell him THANKS* when he asks for what? say...Giving me a reality check.* that YOU are worth more than what he's dishing out to you*. Some guys can be such hurtful jerks........guess he turned out to be one. Not being man enough to tell you the truth as to what his problem is with you.....because you went away to corpus?? Tell him he needs to GeT over iT*........Move on to better things as YOU DESERVE IT* GoodLuck*
2007-04-03 10:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy sounds insensitive and was playing you and now has moved on. He probably gets ego strokes by treating girls like this. He built you up to just let you down, that was part of his game. Best you are not with him anymore. I am so sorry for the pain this jerk has given to you as you sound like such a nice person. Trust me, the right guy will come along. Best of luck to you!
2007-04-03 10:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow his advice. Stop caring and get over it. At worst he's a total jerk, at best very immature and doesn't care about hurting your feelings. Either way, no good. Move on to someone who will treat you better. I wouldn't say boo to this guy. Let him come back and apologize and explain himself, or just let the whole thing be done.
2007-04-03 10:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by Haylebird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. If you sense a man is pulling away from you the last thing you should do is chase him. Besides men hating to be pressured he was backing off anyway and now he's got you doing all the running into the bargain. If he backs off, you back off further. If he doesnt chase after you.... he isnt interested, and you dont need him. Please dont make it so easy for them. Men really do like a chase.
2007-04-03 10:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You capture my heart
When I just hear you laugh
And though we are young
You're my missing half
When you're playing with children
And showing them love
You make my heart beat
Like your sent from above
You capture my heart
With your captivating beauty
And inspire me to make
Caring for you my duty
When you're walking, you move
With such style and grace
And I could study all day
Every line of your face
I'll search high and low
Until each other we find
But now for today
You exist in my mind
When we are apart
It's you I will miss
And long once again
To taste your sweet kiss
I'll embrace you so close
Each night and each day
But for now I will search
Till I find you .................Someday
I would like to chat on yahoo IM with any girl who likes my poem (or add me to your buddy list)
2007-04-03 10:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by dwsum41@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two words- move on! I mean come on- who has time for all that drama for real! Women are enough to deal with, but then to have a guy being ridiculous. Girl move on- there are other fish in the sea!
2007-04-03 10:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by Tickle me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe in the beginning he got carried away but when you were gone he realized that's not what he wanted.
if that could be a possible reason he does not have to be such a jerk about it.
2007-04-03 10:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by delia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, couple things could happened. one is that he found someone new or he'd heard something about you; enough to flip out. what ever the case, he's not man enough to tell you the truth. ask yourself baby girl, do you, do you really want all this drama? just say to yourself ' what ever dude. your lost.' it will help you out. just remember that he's not the catch; you are.
2007-04-03 10:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋