he says he loves me but i tell him my stuff my problems were soo close we have so many things in common and we enjoy each other im very confused
2007-04-03 02:18:58 · 23 answers · asked by arely 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello Arely,
Just tell him that what you both had is the same for him too, he had it as well, but you will always remember how you were together, and you have moved on and he shouldn't push or force you into a betrayal against your new boyfriend. but you will alway regard him as a close friend and he should leave it at that, because you can not be true to two! Just leave him wanting honey. his wanting will ease off, so he too will hold you in good regard too, and then you won't have to explain any of this to your boyfriend should it get out, remamber honey, the truth always gets out, regardless of how well you try to conceal it, but you can relax in the loving knowledge that you did not betray your loving boyfriend trust, not even for a moment that you may regret forever. I do hope this helps to sort out any confusion you have in your mind and your heart. Bye.....Tony M
2007-04-03 02:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by tony m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gather you have this problem because you feel the same way too? You are at a disadvantage because he knows a lot about you, sharing your problems and all. Does he share his problems with you too? If not, pause and think it over for a very long time. Communication is the most important ingredient in a relationship. You seem to have developed this with your friend. Do you share your problems with your bf too? Step back, take time off to gather your thoughts and see what happens next.
2007-04-03 02:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by ★Spotter★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, truth is if you are not married, and you have already started fantasizing about the other guy, then you might have already compromised the relationship you have with your boyfriend already! To echo what has already been said, you do only live once, and even though you shouldn't be fickle with your decisions, you should also know that if your heart wants something that bad, then it will find a way to have it even in your thoughts and dreams! One
2007-04-03 02:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by Battle Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 17:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by friedman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to break up with your boyfriend?
If you see the thing with your bf going places, would you really want to have a fling with this guy?
I guess you are asking because you don't see things going places with your boyfriend. In this case - why are you still with him? You're just waiting until the right guy comes along then you'll dump him?
Not good practice.
Work out what you want with your boyfriend first.
2007-04-03 02:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all think about why he is an ex! Secondly, think about the relationship you are currently in...is it good, are you happy, why are you with him, etc.. Do you really want to give up what you have with this guy for an ex? Afterall he is an ex for a reason.
2007-04-03 02:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes taking advantage to tell you the truth hes using the fact your close to try and make you do what he wants so just put your foot down unless he is what you want have a good think about it if you dont beleive hes manipulated you then get rid of your boyf and have him
2007-04-03 02:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by MARIE S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So whats so wrong with 2 are you the shy type see how it goes
2007-04-03 02:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life - grow up and make a decision - you obvioulsy don't think to highly of your boyfriend to be thinking this way!
Make a decision before they make it for you
2007-04-03 02:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by jamand 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with your bf, this friend of yours should understand and he should be there for you, even if its just as a friend. dont wreck what you already have, besides your friend will start thinking (if you dump your current bf for him) that you would dump him for someone else as well.
2007-04-03 02:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋