2007-04-03 00:11:00 · 27 answers · asked by ambidextrous25 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to know that relationships aren't all fantasy and happily ever after like they are in the movies. it starts out that way but will soon ware off. know that all relationships have bumps in the road and you just need to hold on until they are over. don't give up so early.
2007-04-03 02:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by hopes&dreams 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The biggest lesson in a relationship I learned that everyone is in search of ways and means of his own enjoyment and satisfaction may it be physical, monitory or else. The era of true lovers, laila majnu, shiri farhad, has gone to history. One in search of the real love will have to carry his search for years to find it.
2007-04-03 00:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by kamal k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That I'm not special. Other people, lots of people are going through, have gone through, or sadly, will go through the same thing. When I realised this, I got on living my life and being a bit more careful when love came to town the next time.
2007-04-03 00:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by John M 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say the thing i learned in my last relationship is if he is accusing you of cheating, that means he's cheating. If he all of a sudden becomes jealous, that means he is pursuing another woman, if he starts to use cologne all of a sudden and never used it before, it means he is up to no good. What do you do about it DIVORCE HIM. I did lol.
2007-04-03 00:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Ruby C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great question!
I've learnt lots of lessons - but I suppose the biggest one is to trust my intuition! If you have a hunch about something.... you're usually right!
2007-04-03 00:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sparklepop 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we dream on ideal love we wanted. When it comes we give the best to hold on it. But though we give more than enough they still hurt us for the reason we don't understand.
There will never be a perfect relationship.
2007-04-03 00:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by exo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not to jump into a relationship to quick again, after knowing somebody only for a couple of days, never again.
2007-04-03 00:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it as it come. Don't get indulged. Relationships are part and parcel of human life. Be commited as long as it is possible with honesty and integrity, rest is just karmas.
2007-04-03 00:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by pardeep77_sharma 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The biggest lesson..... Well I've learned that you have to have yourself together before you can be with someone, I've also learned that if you don't know what you want out of your life(your goals and dreams) then don't drag someone else into your world. I will tell you about my last relationship to give you an example.
My Ex Fiance and I met over the internet, now for the most part we were pretty much the same. We were into the same things, we loved to do the same things, we had a lot of the same passion's, well i told her the 2nd or 3rd time i talked to her that i was moving to Texas. She said "I wanna go to Texas!!!" So i told her if she was serious, to pack her **** and lets go! and she agreed, so i had her over to my house for the first date, we drank screwdrivers and watched scary movies and just talked, nothing physical, we were just getting to know one another. So the night ended on a good note and she said "well are you going to see me tomorrow?" and i said of course and huged her goodbye. so we started dating from then on. Well at this time i didn't have a car as i was putting a new engine in mine to go to texas with. It took me about 2 months, which any amateur mechanic know's without power tools, In a nissan that's about how long it takes, so i got the engine in and gave up and took it to a mechanic and paid 300 dollar's. well by this time 3 months had passed and she decided that if she was going to move to Texas with me, why not get married to me? she loved me, i loved her, so i bought her a cheap ring and it turned her finger green( i was in the proccess of saving money again after i had to take the car to a mechanic, so i didn't buy her an expensive ring at the time) and of course now she had a problem with everything i did. and eventually said she want's to get married and settle down, She didn't wanna go to Texas anymore and she said we would just have to break up if i went. So I didn't go. I stayed here for her. I Gave up my carreer as a professional musician for her. This is why i said "know what you want out of life before you drag someone else in"
I have a bit of a bad past, and i was fairly up front about it from the beginning, she said she didn't mind and that she had an odd past as well.
Well I started to not have money and not want to go out a lot, i told her, "you can go out anytime you want, You don't need me, i trust you enough" but she didn't she just wanted to be with me, and she wanted me to go out too... but like i said i was still trying to get my finacial situation together after now buying her a real ring and getting my car fixed...
So in the end, she had a problem with basically everything i did, and then the inevitable came, she told me she can't be with me because of my past, so i said o.k. then a week went by... i tried to get her back, the real reason came out, "i want to sleep with other men, "sans Relationship" and then she said she didn't know what she wanted out of life.
So in conclusion my friends. Know what you want and don't toy or string someone along just so you can feel comfortable.
2007-04-03 00:31:09 · answer #9 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that when he says freely "i'll do a 3-some with another guy if you want" when i never asked of that, that the guy i'm dating...is a mo.
so lesson learned...don't waste time with men who are potential mo's unless it's strictly friends :)
2007-04-03 00:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋