I am in college; and I am so broke; and I was asked to strip for a birthday party. I can leave my thong or pantyhose on.
No cameras or phones allowed...and I can earn tips by doing lap dances. It would be my first time. Would you wear a thong or strip to your pantyhose?
2007-04-02 18:28:09 · 25 answers · asked by Kathy P 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
No. not even if i was broke. have some self pride/dignity..dont go into stripping right away. A job at mcdonalds would be better. Do u really want to give urself up like that now that ur only in college?
2007-04-02 18:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ohkay 5 · 6⤊ 2⤋
It is your decision and your life, but ...
Once you do it it will be done. Nothing you do will be able to change that. You will have the skeleton in your closet for the rest of your life. If it goes against your values then you may regret it for a long time, possibly for the rest of your life - it will be like a noose around your neck.
If you ever go into public life (lawyer, media, politics etc) it may pop up at any time and ruin your career.
My gut feel is that by posting here you are already unsure.
Consider it and your future and how it fits with your values before making a decision.
PS: A group of drunk guys can get out of control very quickly.
2007-04-03 01:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by ktrna69 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I can honestly say, no, I wouldn't.
But I'm not in your situation. I know I can call any member of my family; intermediate and extended. And that is if every single friend I had ditched me, and my boyfriend too. Personally, I would rather bum off my family and friends first, before I stripped half-naked for a bunch of drunk, horny, college guys.
But if you feel you have no other alternative, go for it. Just be extremely careful. Tell someone where you're going, and make sure you know at least a few guys at the party so you won't get harassed or something.
2007-04-02 21:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by SweetMahogany 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If I were seriously desperate. Like, there are no alternatives at all and I've been starving for days and I have no rent money, utilities out, etc.
It really depends on your values.. you may or may not regret your actions.
I know it's kind of trite but here are some suggestions to save money. Go mooch off of parents/friends. Eat cheap, don't buy anything you don't really need. Go to friends' houses and hang out instead of going out on the town. If you need schoolbooks, find some friends who have the same classes or make some friends in that class. Maybe even study together.
2007-04-02 18:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by kalisaurus 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hell no. WAYYYYY too dangerous. Not a good idea even if you were an exhibitionist. Find another way to make money and cut back expenses like partying.
2007-04-03 11:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
By all mean give me a thumb down folks but i still would say NO. I truely understand that how one's can be desperate when they need money to support themselves, but there are always others alternative to earn the income...instead of striping down infront of everybody....
2007-04-02 18:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by dora_chan 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
cheep have you no self respect get a job and there will always be some smart *** with a camera so cop on girl don't lower your self to such low tactics
2007-04-03 01:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely. And you'll get bigger tips if you wear Peavey sheer to waist hose - they have an incredible shine. You can get them at http://www.hotlegsusa.com Go for it girl - flaunt it while you have it!
2007-04-04 06:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ask yourself....would you mind your parents knowing you did it? or your brothers or sisters? or your daughter you will someday have? People talk. The world is smaller than you think. The fact that you asked shows that you know right from wrong. Follow your heart.
2007-04-02 18:34:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
No, just because it could be degrading to you especially the lap dance part. It's just demeaning for a woman to have to do that in a room full of horny guys who have no respect. If you want to earn extra cash, if you have some free time, you could right articles for associated content. Here's a link to my page http://www.associatedcontent.com/join.html?refer=60829
2007-04-02 18:33:33 · answer #10 · answered by fergalicious 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋