Is it okay if an 18 year old girl lets her Christan boy friend get her off if she don't take off her clothes?

Question

I mean just by kissing and rubbing our bodies together? Before we are married?

Answer 1

If he is a Christian he won’t even try that. There is sex touching in intimate places or spots or then there is Bill Clinton ’s (not Oral sex) sex and then there is penetration which is intercourse. They are all improper behavior according to most religious standards. If you go part of the way, you both will want more.

Your boyfriend is a Christian , he should know this. He will want more and more, bits by bit. Keep your self for you true love or husband. If lost your virgin apple you can never get that innocence back. A sin is anything that separates you from Gods Laws, teachings or principles.

Answer 2

Sounds like a line will be crossed whether clothes are on or not. Purity is not tainted simply at vaginal intercourse. People should protect the virginity of their minds and stay as far away from that physical line as possible. Don't flirt with it, because it will become increasingly easier to go back to that, and then to press beyond it. Before you know it, nothing will be special anymore. I recommend that you seriously pray about it, and seek God's will in your actions, and not just what seems fun. You are also going to have to take steps to ensure you aren't snared by temptation. Also don't listen to people who would make you believe it is fine. The world has very different standards than what a Christian should have. God wants marriage to be special and fantastic for you. Don't spoil it. If you wanted Godly advice, I feel that I have given it. If you wanted approval for living according to the flesh, I'm sure there will be some willing to give that too. It's your choice. I recommend giving it some SERIOUS thought.

Answer 3

you don't comprehend you'll consistently love him perpetually nonetheless. have self assurance me I dated a 13 12 months previous lady at the same time as i became 16 and her mom freaked out. I blamed her for the breakup for a lengthy time period yet after a lengthy time period i realized that she became merely searching for her daughter because older men courting youthful women is threatening to maximum dad and mom. flow on for now and in case you locate you nevertheless like one yet another at the same time as your older then pass ahead yet be careful because he can be a criminal man or woman then and until eventually you turn 18 he ought to get in difficulty with the regulation if issues get out of hand

Answer 4

May you be Blessed for seeking the Truth and Jesus said;"But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to "lust"for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart." from Matt.5:28 .So if you have as I have:ask God for Forgiveness and the strenght to Repent{turn away from}.Also don't let the adversary{ha satan} lay any condemnation.See the book of Romans 8:1,38-39. The adversary will lie and try to tell you its OK to have sex when your engaged too.I fell for that also but repented and didn't have sex for a year on our Honey-moon,We were truly Blessed for that...Wow God does Bless sex in marriage.Follow The Bible,with the guidance of the Holy Spirit and you will have one Beautifully Blessed Life,Amen

Answer 5

I'd say no, but must admit that I myself have done this before marriage(and more) but did in fact marry the man. Have never been with anyone else and new that I was going to marry him.

So this is iffy
The Bible states No
but Temptations are strong

Answer 6

If this is a question about pre-marital sex, there is no biblical answer.

There are some things not in the bible that we have to figure out for ourselves.

You and your boyfriend were raised Christian, are you actions reflecting that lifestyle? Do you really expect to marry your boyfriend soon?

You are the only one who knows this answer. With or without your clothes on.

Answer 7

You and your boyfrined have to decide where the line should be. But that is not very Christian behaivor unfortunately. It's basically cheating the system because it's still very sexual and intimate, which is the whole point of waiting til marriage and sharing it with your husband/wife only. And I'm sure you and your boyfriend know this.

Answer 8

If you are saving your virginity for marriage and you love each other I think it's ok. You are human and an adult(18) and if it works it will help you both to not let things go too far.

Answer 9

Sure, whatever makes you happy. Just be prepared for safer sex practices and have a condom and some KY jelly ready. Do not pay any attention to the Xtian fundies on this board.

Answer 10

Perhaps you should look into mutual masturbation instead. I know from experience that too much dry-humping can give you rugburn on certain parts that are, shall we say, "sensitive"?