I'm in a long term relationship, and have a son. I have been having sexual feeings and thoughts about other woman. I don't know if I would ever act on them but have thought about it. What does this mean? Should I get it out of my system? I love the man I'm with and consider myself straight. I find myself looking at bi-sexual womans personal ads! Is this normal for me to feel attracted toward other woman? What do I do about these feelings I'm having?
2007-04-02 16:14:32 · 9 answers · asked by Just Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend does not know about my feelings toward other woman.
2007-04-02 16:20:16 · update #1
The devil is tempting you. Pray the "Lord's Prayer" and ask Christ for strength.
2007-04-02 16:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by Girl of the Forest 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have recently dealt with an issue like this. I just thought it would be fun to experiment with another girl. I talked to my boyfriend about it, and althought he was a little nervous, we agreed that I should try it to see how I feel. The best thing to do is to talk to your guy about. It may turn him on to think that you're attracted to other women. Personally - my experience was horrible. I missed my boyfriend the whole time. I knew I loved him, but I really thought I would like doing things with other girls. We decided if I ever want to do that again, he'll watch because it turns him on. Anyway, I'm just saying - talk to your man. It is normal to feel that way about the same sex. I think the best thing is to find out if it means anything to you. Good luck! I hope this helps.
2007-04-02 16:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by abay98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I often have those feelings as well and my husband and I play into them while we are having sex by talking about them. I don't know if I would ever act on them 100% although it turns me on to think about it. I have kissed another girl and that was pretty intreasting.
Does your husband or partner know about these feelings?
2007-04-02 16:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by yoopergoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is natural to find both male and female bodies attractive. if you are in a relationship cheating is cheating man or woman. i say let yourself wonder, but don't go there
2007-04-02 16:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by code name siren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are bored sexually. Talk to your man and try to spice things up. Get out of your rut and don't screw up you life because you are fantasizing.
2007-04-02 16:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be a good idea to give it a try and then you will know for sure how you really feel.....
2007-04-02 16:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Act on your feelings.
2007-04-02 16:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by WangDangSweetPoontang 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think maybe u should experiment....u might find urself more happier with a women
2007-04-02 16:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by CHRISTIN R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Turn to god hunnie.
2007-04-02 16:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by Becca C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋