I am having a hard time getting over the affairs, It happened when i was pregnant. And I have been going to counsiling, and I really cant seem to get over it. I have been telling him I dont want to be with him anymore but he wont leave. I have been really honest with him. I need help, to make him understand.
2007-04-02 16:11:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you need sometime to think on your own to give you a couple of weeks.If he falls for that and leaves go get a restraining order that way he can't get back in.Any man who cheats deserves everything he gets specially cheating on you while you were preg. what a pig and low life and the woman he cheated with.Getting him out of there will give you peace of mind and isn't that what your looking for.
2007-04-02 16:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love him anymore and want him leave. Only way you can do is get a lawyer for divorce. Don't ask him leave by yourself it won't work because he think you still love him.
If you still love him and he still love you and end his affair you should give him a chance. Good luck.
2007-04-02 23:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by kkvv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find the strength inside you and leave. He is not treating you right and you deserve someone a million times better than that. Take control of your life and do what makes YOU happy and I think that leaving him will do that
Be strong, stay close to the friends that will support you and you will make it through this!
2007-04-02 23:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't get over the affairs, then you can't. I don't blame you because I don't think I could either. Once that trust is betrayed, it's tough to get it back again. If he won't leave, can you? Do you have somewhere to go?
2007-04-02 23:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by true blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he doesn't want to be the bigger man and move on since he has made terrible mistakes in the relationship, you should be a STRONG WOMAN AND STEP UP AND MOVE ON..... If you really dont want him and can not accept him and his mistakes that he has made, you should just step up to the plate and move out on his *** leaving him wanting you more than ever. Thats the best way to forget about him!!!!
2007-04-02 23:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by diamondz_a_mill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realize this may be difficult but you may have 2 be the 1 to leave-I left my husband because he wouldn't leave either-2day I am friends with him and wife#4
2007-04-02 23:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by sundans64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you go get custody of the baby and you move our. he broke your trust he screwed up big time. FYI you will never feel the same about him again because you will always wonder if he's out cheating again. And you may find it hard to trust any man because of this...trust me I know.good luck
2007-04-02 23:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have talked to him and he won't leave then I would talk to a lawyer and start proceedings for a seperation or divorce. Once you have started legal proceedings your husband will have to take what you have been telling him seriously.
2007-04-02 23:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by robyn4ever13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when you find out please let me know. However if i find out first i'll let you know. Its not easy to leave when its your house lol. Good Luck.
2007-04-02 23:17:21 · answer #9 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he won't leave then I guess you will have to...If he did this to you once he will probably do it again.....Dump him Honey.
2007-04-02 23:16:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋