This question is up for debate: One night stands.......?

Question

My girlfriends and I were at lunch and the subject of sex came up. Tracey met a guy, there was instant chemistry, they text messeged each other all the time, spoke on the phone a lot, then one night they had sex. She said it was great. He kept calling out her name, moaning, kissing her, etc.
After that night, Tracey never heard from the guy again. He wouldn't return phone calls or text messages.
So her question was, why would a guy give her so much attention, then never call her again?
Is this the typical one-night stand behavior for guys?

Answer 1

Well I think it's obvious what your friend thought was "instant chemisty" was him playing a game. He got what he wanted and was out the door.

Answer 2

I'm not a guy, but sometimes I think like one, and if all I wanted was a little puntang, I surely wouldn't of gone to all that trouble in the first place to get some.

Something must of snapped in his head or he had a fear of commitment, or maybe shyness took over.

Although, at the same time, maybe he's just an a** and in order to secure the goods he has to play a lil ball.....

Answer 3

You better believe it a lot of guys do this pretend they like you but only want sex then don't want anything else to do with you very common thing for guys to do.

Answer 4

Men like the hunt and once they "got it" they aren't interested. It's like dogs, once they catch the bunny and make it squeek they don't want it anymore.

Answer 5

Next time your friend shouldn't pick players. She got what she let him know she wanted, why would he return her messages?

If you don't want to be treated like a tramp, don't act like one.

Answer 6

Oh yeah

Answer 7

sorry, but yeah. He wanted one thing and got it, and probably could have been married