Is it ok for me to be a lil mad and jealous that my g/f married her friend so he can get citizenship?

Question

we've been together for almost a year, and she says she loves me, and i really love her, and theres nothing between them other than friendship. but i still feel like crap being jealous and agnry about it.

Answer 1

yeah you can be a little mad, but think of the good she is doing. i have offered the same for a couple of my friends.

Answer 2

It's ok for you to get a lot mad. This is a deal breaker, you need to dump her and move on. It doesn't matter if it's nothing but friendship because that won't always be that way. Your girlfriend is now someone else's wife!

Find someone who loves you and treats you with respect. I don't care what she says as she has proven by action that isn't the case.

Move on and find someone new.

Answer 3

Well yes, seeing as how you are technically committing adultery, I can see how you would be mad. How long has she been married? Don't they have to cohabitate for like 5 years or so before they can get divorced? Any normal man in your position would be angry. I imagine you'd always thought the two of you would get married and not only do you have to wait for years, she'll be a divorcee when you do!
That's one Hell of a thing to do for a friend. Hopefully, he's going to leave her with something nice when he's gone. You have my deepest sympathies.

Answer 4

i think that this should tell you something about your girlfreind. if she doesnt respect marriage how can she respect you . if her freind cant stay in the country its probably cause he doesnt belong here in the first place. i would suggest that you really consider your relationship and know whats more important to you . your instinct is right on the money . i would feel like crap and those feeling are probably telling you to get the hell out of there and find a women who can respect herself and you .

Answer 5

She could wind up in jail for that. Find someone with better ethics.