Wimpy Man or Not?

Question

My friend, had a child with a woman whom he doesn't love. He asked her to marry him and she said no. He is 42, works 80-90 hours a week for this child. The mother has no intention of ever being with him and demands to check everyhting from his mobile phone to his work schedule, to make sure that if he does over time she gets it. She has turned down more work, because she says it would interefer with her child tax credit. She even has followed him on dates and accused him of getting other women pregnant.Which he has not. He is too frightned to date, is lonely. The child is not in his name either, and he purchesed her a car last year, becasue she says the child needed it. How do I help him? Mind you she crys because the child is almost 4 now and she wants another baby, from him. How do I help my friend. I have witness her behavior first hand so he is not telling lies.

mind you this woman has demanded that he draw up a will and leave it all to his son, as i said before the child does not carry his last name at all, how do i help this guy?

Answer 1

Frist is that he only has a relationship with the daughter. Which means its court time. Take her there if she won't take him. That way everything is at its minimal as far as what she gets out of it, on top of that its time for visitation that way he can do the spoiling outside of her. Shoot if you do it right the only contact he'll have to make with her is on the pick-up and dilervery. Besides no marriage makes it much hard for her to get her money so he can take advantage of that. Really if he gives a damn about this child he needs her to be with him. This women is no mother. The fact is he is both him and that kid all for the sack of his own insecurities. Which sad to say is why he is there in the frist place. So you need to tell that cat if he every thought he had the leasure of hating himself and what he can do that time has past. He needs to grow up and accept some responsiblility which in this case is all of it. He should of know the type of lady he was getting into and now if he doesn't do his stuff right his little kid is going to pay for it more then he has..... Time for him to leave for the kiddo, instead of himself, tell him to do what he can to get rid of her from her life. The fact is just like man, even a kid can be a mother or father but it takes a man or a women to be a Mom or a Dad. From the looks of it, neither or standing up to that plate. Really this lady is horriable and he really think she deserves to be the mom? Nor does he really believe the kid deserves this women to pretend to be there for her? I mean even I can tell that....

Answer 2

No, not wimpy, at all.

All the best!/