ive liked this one guy for about a year now but i dont think hes got a clue. we flirt alot too but a few months ago he asked if i liked him and i was too embarrased so i said no. but at school i think he over heard my friend sayign i like him because she is such a loud mouth. but he called me later that day and seemed really interested in my life and he asked me what i was doing on the weekend and i told him (i was really busy). but then i saw him again at church and he didnt talk to me as much as he always does just talked about his wresteling and he hugged me goodbye but thats it.. i really want him to ask me to the formal for our school what should i do??
2007-04-02 09:54:12 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah Ann 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't have "boy" troubles, you have "girl" troubles as in you. Clearly he is interested, but you are either too shy or want to play games. Since you told him "no", it's now your job to ask him out on a date. Let him know that you interested too.
Stop playing game, guys will often think you are not worth the trouble.
2007-04-02 09:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teen age love. nothing quite like it!! honestly, he may just be shy. Next time you two hug, make sure it's not just a side hug, but a nice (NOT EROTIC) full hug. If there is no one in ear shot, whisper in his ear a sweet "thank you" nothing more. this will leave him wondering and perhaps have him ask you "thank you for what?" If he does this, then be honest with him and casually ask him if he has plans for the formal. Hopefully this will drop the idea in his brain and he can put the hints together and ask you out to the formal. If he doesn't ask you soon, then be bold and tell him you would like to go to the formal with him. Let him feel like he is taking the initiate and let him think it is his idea.
2007-04-02 17:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by bookworm019 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sarah! OMG! You said no to him when he already asked you out rigth? So most guys don't ask again! Gee Whiz. I get that from time to time so I figure that girl who turned me down don't like me so I just move on to the next one. You only get one chance per guy if he asks you. Most likely that's how guys are unless he's a stalker and really really desperate then he'll ask you again. But please let your shyness go and think about your happiness instead. Your shyness is same as ego and ego is really really bad. I had many fights and trouble because of ego. Get rid of it now before you have no guys asking you again. Good luck. P.S. If you really like this guy then you'll have to tell him the truth that you do like him and that you were shy so that's why you said no. Otherwise, fat chance he'll ask you again.
2007-04-02 17:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by What's the truth? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So ask him the formal dance. No is the worst he can say. Don't stress it so much. Guys like an independant woman who knows what they want and isn't afraid to get it.
2007-04-02 16:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by Just a girl... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he asked you what you were doing the weekend following when he asked you he might have wanted to hang out or somethin and u said u were really busy and he might have thought u just said that as an excuse. or maybe he knew u were tellin the truth. with that question he asked if u like him... if anyone asks u a hard question like that i normally just turn it around and ask if you like me or somethin. but anyways you should start hinting at it ask him if he if going with anyone yet.
2007-04-02 17:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by kev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweeite, don't worry about it. This is just a guy's way of making sure that he doesn't look "thirsty", in other word, desperate. So that was his way of just trying to lay off a little. Im sure he still likes you! just keep talking like you guys are, and try to fix up a date or something, like lunch or a cup of coffee. That should do the trick! :)
2007-04-02 16:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by colorfulgarden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him know that you DO like him first. It seems that he likes you too, so if you make sure he knows how you feel, he'll be more likely to ask you to the formal. Good luck!
2007-04-02 16:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Fernando 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him- go see him some time where its quiet and explain that you do actually like him, and ur sorry if you gave him mixed messages but you were a bit confused about your feelings. He should understand and hopefully hell ask you to your formal!
2007-04-02 17:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by sxclxc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should be honest with your feelings. That way he knows instead of playing this guessing game. If you really like him like you say, then i say go tell him. It's better than watching him dance with another girl.
2007-04-02 17:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by chewie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he shy... it might have taken him a lot of courage to ask you did you like him first time... and being turned down dented his pride... I think you should try and talk to him a bit more and maybe ask him to the cinema?? being alone he might be less shy and talk more
2007-04-02 17:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋