Do you think guyz are to into their games then girlfriends?

Question

My bf is not talking to me because, he is always playing on his Ps2...Everytime I call I ask him what he is doing? He says to me "Video Games, can I call you back in 6 hours so i can play this??" I usually say sure do whatever because i am sick and tired of it. HELP@!???!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

Answer 1

What you need to do is realize that obviously you and him have different standards of living and being happy. His are to play video games and have fun, in that sense. Yours, i'm sure, are a bit different.

The moment one person trys to change another to their own standards of living is the moment things go wrong!

So, instead of trying to change him out of this habit, maybe you should try and learn to like these "video games." I am sure he would love to teach you! And, then once you have shown interest in his things, you have much more leverage to ask that he do something in your favor.

However, If this is just not something you care to do, then this relationship will never work. However harsh that may seem.

Plus, guys think that girls that play video games are AWESOME and HOT! (Believe me, I'm a guy with a wife that can kick my butt in video games!)

Answer 2

LOL. I think this is a fairly common gripe. I too am guilty of over-gaming. I can say though that I've never blown off my girlfriend so I could play video games. You should tell him how you feel, and make him decide between playing video-games for twelve hours straight, or having you as his girlfriend. :-)

Answer 3

very simple, stop talking to him, don't break up with him, don't make any girl scenes, just stop talking to him hang out more with your girlfriends, spend some time with you family, guys like this are very unpredictable when it comes to know it they are going to grow up and get over their video games, or they are going to play with them the rest of their liefs, but unless you aren't interested in a long term relationship with this kid, finish it, but i assume this is not the case, so just give it some time and don't chase him anymore,
STOP TALKING 2 HIM!!
i know its hard but the only person being hurt here its you, right?
if he doesn't change, well, you don't want to spend the rest of your life with a semi bold over weight guy , wearing glasses cause he has lost his sight due to TV radiation, that all hes going to do is play video games instead of being there for you.

YOU DESERVE BETTER

Answer 4

If your bf is too busy with something he considers to be more interesting than YOU, you should look elsewhere for fun. Come on over to my house for some fun!! I don't play much video games, but at least MY joystick still works!!!!

Answer 5

Sweetie, don't you think that's a little wierd? Are you SURE he's playing video games? I say you should tell him to put the game on hold instead of putting YOU on hold..you're his girlfriend and u deserve MUCH better.

Answer 6

Some guyS are into video games. Some actually care about deeper things. Keep looking is my advise.

Answer 7

My son is like this and it makes me mad, I caught him putting his girlfriend on speaker phone so he could be hands free to play his games and I told him I thought that was rude, and I told the girl to tell him to only call when he really wanted to talk......
That solved it
OR AT LEAST WHEN I AM HOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

Dump him. If he would rather spend his time in a virtual world than the real world with his real-life girlfriend, he is not someone you want to be with.

Answer 9

For the moment he find his ps2 more interesting than you.
that will change some day

Answer 10

he ain't ready for a girlfriend.
last time i checked, a person was more important than some dumb video game.