i have a best guy friend. i thought he liked me until i saw him w/ another girl. So, i was afraid to go for anyother guy when i thought he like me. so i have a boyfriend now and we were kissing one day and my best guy friend saw us. and later that week he explained how he was upset. and now he hates me . how am i supposed to gget him back?
2007-04-02 09:19:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, please. If he wanted you, he coulda had you. He strung you along and went out with other girls and never bothered to take things a step up with you.
Don't try to get him back. Waste of your time. You deserve someone who is so unbelievably head over heels about you, someone who could never resist being the one to kiss you, someone who wouldn't ever kiss another girl because he's too busy figuring out how to kiss you.
Move on, girl. He hates you because you're not playing his little game, and good for you. It shouldn't be a game, and you shouldn't have to do anything other than be yourself. If he missed his chance with you, his loss. Don't give him another chance with you, that ship has sailed my friend.
2007-04-02 09:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by robin0408 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HATE, is a very powerful word, now, if he hates you, well he couldn't be your best guy friend to begin with, cause he would've known you better, in this scenario, there's no room for such thing as hate, if this is a fact that he is such friend, because, the way to solve things in not through hate, IS TALKING!! you did what you thought was right anyways, and he did to, if hes upset, may be he a little challenged by someone Else, your current bf, but he has no right to hate ou or to get mad at you, if he wants to talk it out, fine, if he continues with his hate trip, so be it, you have to put things under perspective, do you really like this other guy? you think he deserves a chance to know you and be part of your life?
now think, your friend the angry one, you both in a relationship already, don't you think that he will show a display of hate for something else? think about this for a second, if he i capable of demonstrating hate to you he will no matter what status you both share, I'd say give the guy you are with a chance, if you consider this wise.
2007-04-02 16:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by Rodrigo D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really is your best guy friend you should break it down to him and tell him you were only with that guy because you thought you couldn't have HIM. Look him in the eyes and tell him that you value his friendship, but really want to see if there can be something more between you..see if he wants to give it a try. Tell him life's too short to hold grudges, or to hold loved ones at arm's length. Good Luck!
2007-04-02 16:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by CJ SWEETNESS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to call him and ask him to get a coffee and talk about your feelings for each other upfront, instead of leaving each other guessing. If he honestly likes you, then he should have said so, but it sounds like you guys need to talk. Call him up and explain to him that you like him as well but you saw him with another girl. Ask him what that was all about, and explain to him what you just explained here in that little paragraph of yours. Good Luck
2007-04-02 16:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by Laxbaby05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hates you now? Why? What did you do to him? You need to talk to him and tell him that you have seen him with other girls and have been cool. It isn't fair that you can't be with other guys. Tell him that you have had feelings for him for a while but didn't think they were reciprocated so moved on. Maybe you two can have your chance now.
2007-04-02 16:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you have a boyfriend but you like youre best guy friend, you should than break up with your bf. Go up to your friend tell him your sorry and say how you feel.
2007-04-02 16:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by Fairytale * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldnt hate you for trying to move on. He doesnt sound like the best of friends. Tell him your sorry. and that you liked him but thought you had no chance, so you moved on.
2007-04-02 16:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by jesssikahhh_x3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why were you kissing another guy if you want him back. This isn't exactly the way to get someone back again.
2007-04-02 16:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone like that isn't worth it. He's a hipacrit if I spelled that right.
2007-04-02 16:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to clam down ok i guess u have to find a new boy firend
2007-04-02 16:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋