we dated four years ago he cheated on me everything was rosie but he cheated now he wants us to come back together but am not sure wat to do. should i give it one more try or not?
2007-04-02 09:12:00 · 10 answers · asked by naija queen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is d problem he made his mom call me and he has been asking me back for three years.
2007-04-02 09:36:40 · update #1
Once a cheat always a cheat.
2007-04-02 09:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there and done that. I let someone come back after they'd cheated on me, but here's the thing, the question to ask is WHY he wants back. In my case, it was because he was going through a "dry spell" and he still didn't get any with me during the time we got back together. We lasted only a month because I saw really what kind of a person he was and he wasn't any nicer than before...so I dumped him and moved on. He was the player type =( I personally wouldn't give someone a second chance when they've cheated on me; it's one of those things, if they do it once, they'll do it again.
2007-04-02 09:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you want to sell yourself short, and look like you have no dignity, sure go ahead, but he will cheat on you again. How many times will you take him back? If you do, he will cheat and he will know that he can cheat on you again because you have no respect for yourself.
2007-04-02 09:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by mentallykornfused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He already cheated on you...would you ever be able to really trust a guy like that? Why would you want to put yourself in that position?
2007-04-02 09:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by RITA G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you see that he has learned from his mistake and that you both still really care for another...then why not.
other wise, if he seems like the same guy that cheated on you, then i suggest you give it time. cuz if he really cares, he should understand and not put you under pressure about it.
2007-04-02 09:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by crissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey, I have been there in my experience its best not to cross that brigde again... better burn that one down. you broke up right?, its called a breakup because its broken. usually beyond repair, but if you love him and truly believe that it can work, go for it everyone deserves to be happy.
2007-04-02 09:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by tink7723 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NNNOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!
Run away!! He's looking for something easy to get back into now that the other relationships are done. Unless he gets you a big 'ol ring and grovels at your feet, admitting he's a moron-RUN AWAY!
2007-04-02 09:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by jade222_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was me, i would defenetly say no because somtimes ur heart makes wrong choices. but if u really have feelings for him give him a chance, it might just work out for u 2. hehehe
2007-04-02 09:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by Elli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater, always a cheater---get back with him then drop him like it's hot so he'll know how it feels to get dumped!
2007-04-04 05:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. you shouldnt even have to think about getting back with him, your first thought should have been that its his loss
2007-04-02 09:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by dubbLe x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋