BE HONEST NOW.
I've had one massage. I fell asleep 10 minutes into it and apparently was sawing wood. I don't know if she fininshed - I am overweight with one too many spare tires & fat on my body. My feet are also dry and crusty (its true). Worker seemed disgusted. Would you be & would you finish the massage? And I've been wondering, with me sleeping, how did she turn me over to say massage my back? I've been told I drool when I sleep.
2007-04-02 09:07:43 · 11 answers · asked by Bernice C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is just fine for you to get a massage. She probably asked you to roll over, and you just don't remember.
2007-04-02 09:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by DisIllusioned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off don't listen to anyone about it being gross. . .people have no idea!!! I am a massage therapist and falling asleep is a compliment and so is drooling. . .it just means that we are doing a good job!
With the overweight thing. . .don't worry about it. . .overweight people need massages just as bad if not more. You need to take care of your joints and massages help, trust me I know I am overweight too. Besides massages feel good and I think everyone deserves one. I would finish the massage, and wake you up to turn over to finish the massage. I would find a new MT, try several out until you find one you like. . .just because you go to one doesn't mean you have to stick with them. . .you wouldn't go to a doctor that didn't do him job well would you? Being a MT we see a lot worse cases then what you think you may have. . .try a guy that has been working outside all day and comes in sweaty and smelly. . .yuk.
Oh and about your feet, if you are uncomfortable with them touching then because they are crusty, tell them to skip the feet, or you could get a pedicure, or if it doesn't bother you don't worry about it. I wouldn't. The massage with help your feet and that is kinda what you are paying them to do. . .is help make you feel better!
2007-04-02 16:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by pinkbunniesblue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a student massage therapist, and i'm a lil overweight. there's nothing wrong with overweight women getting massages. But who wants to touch crusty feet. Just get a little more into yourself, and care about how you look. Obesity is not a problem. Bad grooming is. Personally, i would have massaged your feet through the sheets for 30 seconds and moved on. Diff people have diff preferences and prejudices tho. Drooling would have put the icing on the cake!!! GOTSTA BE MORE CAREFUL!!! LOL.
2007-04-02 16:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Audrean L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are indeed overweight and did indeed treat yourself to a full body massage, good for you! I am sorry you feel so bad about yourself however that you are a burden to those providing the service. Whether overweight or underweight, dry feet or soft and smooth as silk, I bet the money they made was just as green. How does an overweight woman make positive life changes, if she lives in constant shame of how far she has "let herself go, or feels ashamed when she does finally relax for a few moments? I wish you many more wonderful restful experiences.. Don't worry about what they think, take care of being the best you.
2007-04-02 16:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by Dawn M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You go girl! You deserve to feel good, and it must have felt good if you drifted off to sleep in the middle of it. Be comfortable and confident with your body. If the worker has a problem, complain! Get some of that money back if she/he made you feel low. It is part of their job to treat every client with equal respect. If you don't feel comfortable with one worker, ask for another.
2007-04-02 16:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by doodlebug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've given larger ladies full body massages, just before having sex with them... :D
2007-04-02 16:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends will you see these people ever again? Does it really matter if you won't?
2007-04-02 16:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by Kramer S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u totally grossed me out with your perverted fantasies. get lost
2007-04-02 16:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This sounds kinda gross!
2007-04-02 16:10:27 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm did u gross me out sick
2007-04-02 16:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by gardenia33_99 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋