She is in the wedding and its the first grandchild on that side of the family.
2007-04-02 08:05:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My sister was pregnant in her 8Th month on my wedding and I felt like the queen of the whole world
2007-04-04 01:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by laney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not, especially if she has been a bride before. Women who have had their own weddings are usually very sympathetic to brides because they want them to have their own special day, the same way they did when they were brides.
You need to know that being pregnant is an eye catcher though and people will ask her how she is doing and feeling, its just a normal reaction to pregnancy and its not her or anyone ignoring you and your feelings. Unfortunately, its hard to know how something is until, you go through it yourself, so you wont fully understand why people ask her how shes doing or if she needs a quick potty break until you are 7 month PG yourself. Dont hold her being pregnant against her and try really hard not to put yourself into a situation where you come off sounding petty and jealous of her. Believe me, I've had 2 kids, at 7 months we are big and starting to get uncomfortable, and that "glow" that everyone talks about is sweat from heaving around a huge tummy,. the last thing any girl wants at this stage is attention. We are good with falling to the wayside and enjoying the sitting aspect of life as a spectator.
Good luck!!!
2007-04-02 15:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be silly.The baby isn't here yet so how can she steal your thunder?
You sound very unsure of yourself and sounds as though you haven't much confidence in anyone.They'll all be watching the bride and your wedding party.
I think it's special your sis is pregnant and in your wedding.You must be pretty pleased about that too and this will be your 1st.neice or nephew and how great is that?
Don't worry about such a little thing.Just enjoy your wedding and make every second count.You'll have memories for a lifetime and be able to tell this baby that he was at your wedding before being born.
Relax.Enjoy.Good Luck to you both.
2007-04-02 15:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt it, I don't see many pregnant women stealing thunder, normally it's babies that do that. We had a 2 week old at our wedding even that didn't "seal our thunder." It's a very petty thing to worry about, in my opinion.
2007-04-02 18:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by layla983 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She couldn't steal your thunder, I always thought it was extra cute and special to have a PG bridesmaid - also how nice will it be that your future niece/nephew is in the wedding before they are here.
2007-04-02 15:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by UnhappyBridesmaid 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. I was 3 weeks from my due date and I was a bridesmaid for a friend. People asked me when I was due and if I knew if the baby was a boy or girl, but just your basic questions like that. No one made a fuss about it. But then again, I'm not the "oh, please ask me about my pregnancy. I want to talk about me" type. I just kind of sat back all quiet because my feet hurt and my daughter was kicking me in the lungs, ribs, and diaphragm. Don't worry about it, especially if she's not a "look-at-me" type. People still focus on the bride and groom. Besides, what are you going to do? Ask her not not be in the wedding because she's pregnant? Ask her to not come? I doubt she did it to annoy you.
2007-04-02 15:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, don't be that way. No she won't steal your thunder, but no one is going to ignore the fact that she's expecting. People will ask her how she is, did she pick names, etc. If she waited to announce her pregnacy at your wedding well that's different, but this isn't new news to anyone.
2007-04-02 15:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by kbos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you let her by being so worried about it! she might "steal your thunder" if the baby was born already at your wedding and then everyone would want to see the baby, but I would think everyone would realize it's your big day and the baby will be the focus in two months when it arrives.
2007-04-02 15:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by aly 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Only if she goes into labor while she's standing up for you. My friend was 2 weeks from delivering at our other friend's wedding, and it wasn't an issue at all-she looked really cute in her bridesmaid dress.
2007-04-02 15:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way she could steal your thunder is if she went into labor during your ceremony. At she won't, so don't worry.
2007-04-02 15:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋