Changing like the weather?

Question

We both married . When talking to me she often touches me and often hesitates touching me like kicks my feet or keeps proding me to get my attention. When we work we work but when we play we do just as hard. When talking to me she is often in my space and most of the time when walking past my office looks in and sometime runs past pretending not to look. When on the phone we talk and one of us will say we have to go or don't u have to go then we talk even more. We from time to time talk personal. . Generally she will always sit next to me in meetings. . Also we r more touchy (nervously) and complimentary or critical both negative and positive. I got a com re my weight On the neg comments I ask why and she say also neg with her man, so whats the problem thats the way she is. She appears often nervous and in a hurry round me. Nervous or avoidance or scared. Now there is minimal communication and a lot of tension whats happin

Answer 1

Ever heard of an emotional affair? Yes they do happen, and yes it doesn't take much. Fact is most marriages are not happy, which you most know because your not exactly putting a brink wall up against her. Its not fair for ether of you or your spouse's but such is the way the world works now. You need to explain when the change acutal occured a little better and I can be specific about that, but your dealing with a relationship were it would seem both of you are reaching out for something esle you don't have... need more details to be sure... but there could be a hunderd reasons why she changed her technique.... give a lot more information about the time right before she changed and more about how close you guys got in the relationship... do you know how her marriage is going? does she know about yours? how deep did it go buddy?