I have been dating this guy for almost 1 year now and though he hasnt told me he loved me (shes the shy type of guy) he shows me he wants to be with me and cares about me. I have asked him "what do you really want from me" and he said in a serious voice "i want you to have my baby" does that mean he wants to be more serious with me and maybe marry him one day or what does it really mean?
2007-04-02 07:40:32 · 26 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means you two REALLY need to learn to communicate better. If a guy were to say that to me, I'd say "not without a wedding ring."
If you can live the rest of your life without verbal confirmation of your BF's intentions or true emotions, then good for you. I for one could not do so. If my husband never told me he loved me, I would never have married him, let alone moved in with him or gotten engaged. But that's just me.
2007-04-02 07:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! What a hard question to answer! That response can trigger so many mixed emotions in a woman. And can mean so many different things coming from a man. This is a question where you will receive a diverse set of answers, none of which may particularly fill your immediate need. The only way to settle this, or get what you want is to sit down with him, and have a real heart to heart NO HOLDS BARRED! Good Luck!
2007-04-02 14:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by jilly39bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't told you he loves you yet, then that's a bit of a warning sign. Wait for these words to confirm how he really feels. Otherwise, he might just be looking for more of a physical relationship. When he finally gets around to telling you he loves you, then you can more-safely assume that this is the real deal & he wants to marry you.
2007-04-02 14:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by mathsmart2_aelita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your other posts you are really unsure of the way this guy feels for you. First of all, DO NOT HAVE HIS BABY. Until there is a ring on your finger you shouldn't even be thinking of a family with the guy. Not to mention that you think he has another girl on the side, why did you read the emails anyway? Run, run fast and run far.
2007-04-02 14:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by Question Addict 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeahhh Id be a little confused myself. Maybe he's ready to start a family, maybe he thinks you two would have cute kids...
I guess it all depends on how old the two of you are, how you feel about him, how close you are to one another... But maybe its just his way of telling you that he wants a future with you. The two of you need to talk more about your feelings towards one another even though it can be hard to when your partner is the shy type. Sharing your own past experiences and your own inner feelings is a way to make your partner feel more comfortable about sharing their own with you. Try it out and Good Luck with your relationship!
2007-04-02 14:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by LilMiss143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd have to ask him what he meant. He didn't say, "I love you", or "I want to marry you". Maybe he just thought it sounded "romantic", or that it was something you wanted to hear.
If he loved you, he would respect you. When you respect someone you don't ask them to "have a baby" before you marry them.
Bringing a child into the world, and raising that child into a healthy, well-adjusted adult is a tremendous responsibility. Children deserve to be born into a loving and stable family. A family who are married and committed to each other and their child. A family who are emotionally and financially ready.
You didn't mention your ages, I suspect both of you are very young and immature. If you weren't, you wouldn't be asking these questions.
Good luck to you, please don't bring another child into the world before it has a "family" to care for it.
2007-04-02 15:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just taking his time to say that he loves you! My BF did that, he waited over a year & 3.5 years later we r buying a house together, bout to get engaged & gonna spend our lives together. Be patient he will tell you he loves you in due time, and hopefully it means he's ready to settle down & be with you forever but that's a big decision that you cannot make after knowing someone for just a year. Just let things happen & don't pressure him into anything.
2007-04-02 14:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jen J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him flat out. He might just want to have a child, or he could mean more serious things. the only person who knows all this is him though. So just ask him.
2007-04-02 14:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like hes wanting a relationship, but hold off on having Children until you Both know each other real well and are Financially able to afford a child.
2007-04-02 14:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that means he really cares and loves you. If he's willing to get married then he definitely loves u. If u both love each other then yall shouldn't let this opportunity go by.
2007-04-02 14:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by Ricardo E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋