Phonesex????

Question

Do you believe you could develop feelings for someone with only having phonesex with them??I was messing around with someone over the phone and he started calling everyday telling me he loves me....I am like yeah right but he wants to send me money and pay my car note too....Is it possible that he could have feelings for me or is he just a little lonely??

P.S I've been talking to him for the last three months....

Answer 1

Is that your job? Are you a phonesex operator? Because if not
it sounds like both of you are sick and lonely.
If this man is pleasuring himself over the phone with you, it's probably something he does on a regular basis with multiple people. Why would he stop after entering a relationship with you? Why would he do that in the first place?
Probably because he's an middle-age, balding, overweight freak who is too scary in person to meet people the normal way.
And for all people who are reading this post, please remember that if anyone calls your house breathing heavy, please unless it's one of your friends having an asthma attack, just hang the phone up!
I never knew there were woman who actually stay on the phone in a situation like that!
You people need to get some morals....
read the bible or something....
and brush your teeth......

Answer 2

His intentions are to get you to continue the phone sex....you never know...maybe he has tons of friends that listen in and it's so enjoyable he's hooked. But consider whether you would allow a 'live love interest' (and not just the fantasy phone sex guy) to give you money and pay your car note. It's a matter of principles and your own character. I wouldn't let this guy know anything else about me if I were you. You have no independent source to verify the information he tells you, he could be anyone including someone who is a real threat. If you're under 18 years old consider confiding in an older sibiling, friend or parent to investigate the matter further before you get yourself in a real jam. Alot of people are lonely in this world, but they don't engage in phone sex and attempt to buy a female's affections. Wake up!!

Answer 3

He certainly has feelings for one aspect of you. Not all of you though. If he's hanging these emotiuons on the phone sex then it's artificial no matter what he says he feels.

Could be lonely. Could be really horny. Could be you. Someone looking to pay off a car note and send you money so quickly is either really infatuated with you, really lonely, or treating you like a prostitute. Either way, it's a red flag.

Answer 4

I think that if you are just having phonesex with him, and not having a functional relationship (and yes, you can have a functional relationship over the phone) then he really shouldnt be in love with you. I think it's more lust than love if the calls are just sex, and sending you money and telling you he loves you is his way of reasoning the sex based relationship.

Answer 5

Kahari, check this s*** out!!!!!! I personally know someone who was lonely, needy, flirty, and all that other b.s. that goes along with it. She let this guy into her life and they went to church together, the whole nine you dig!!!!!! She married dude, stopped going to her church in which she was a member of, started going to his.Against the objections of her family she isolated from them just to have this fool close to her. After awhile when the newness wore off, he began to show his true character of who he really was. He started beating her, controlling her every move until finally to make a long story short, he killed her, and drove around the city with her body in the trunk until the smell of her body decomposing became obvious and he was finally arrested. My point is to you, don't believe the hype!!!!! Do not be a fool and set yourself up trying to be hip,slick,and cool and let him in thinking you can handle the situation , and he turns out to be a psychotic that preys on lonely and single women. Tricknology is a science of the devil, and his demons know how to apply the science. If you do go through with it though, make sure you have backup with you and put him to the test to see if he really is a genuine trick that is just lonely and harmless. Stay makadoscious with it !!!!!!!!

Answer 6

phonesex won't create a loving relationship. it sounds more like cybersex. it just leads to hallucinations and mental instability. and it affects your physical health. if you can't hold him in your arms and look into his eyes and see that sparkle i'd forget him. moonraven/cinderella. money doesn't buy love and a lifetime of commitment together. true loves comes from many years of changes between two people to really understand their true love. how can you love someone you've never touched?

Answer 7

A waste of time and funds. no longer strong or undesirable, merely ineffective. for an same fee your neighbor (daughter) would cope with to assist. Or the different man or woman - a lot human beings strolling round with a similar urges. Peace.

Answer 8

I was going to say that idea was outrageous, but hey, I guess it's just as outrageous as internet dating now isnt it? In this case however, you werent set up by common interest, it's just a prank gone wrong. I'd be a little creeped out and stay away.

Answer 9

He's been teased over the phone, and now he wants the real thing. He wants in your pants, he doesn't want to be with you. Especially if the 'love' thing only started after the phone sex.

Answer 10

YES it is possible to have feelings for someone after only having phone sex...but the feeling is probably lust!!!