would a women see a guy who has very little or no work experience as a loser. could this be the reason why i?

Question

am always being rejected. i have female friends too, who are married and i get quite alot of affection from those

Answer 1

~depends. are you broke/poor? then yes.
do you have other income - meaning that you just don't HAVE to work? Then maybe THAT isn't the really problem.

Answer 2

And what kind of 'affection' are you getting from your married female friends????

And how old are you..if you are like 20 or so with little work experience, then I'd say it's not so bad, but if you're much over that then, Yes, it's a bad thing. GET SOME! either that or go to a university and get a degree so you can have a future and plan for your life.

Answer 3

Depends why you haven't worked and how much 'life' experience you have gained.

Might stop you having as much in common with a lot of women.

Also, you haven't mentioned how your financial status is affected by not working- most women will be looking for someone who is as financially stable as themselves.

Won't be the be all and end all though, should come down to personality and sheer chemistry!

Answer 4

Well, a lot of women don't want to end up supporting a man (unless of course he is planning to be a stay-at-home dad raising kids and cleaning house) as I believe many hope for either equal partnership in a relationship or there are still plent of woman that would like to be taken care of...of course those are huge generalities. If you have little or no work experience, they are going to wonder how old you really are and be curious to know if you are either independently wealthy (family inheritence) or if you have just been living off of your partners/roommates, etc.

Answer 5

Hi,

No not at all - it all depends on why you haven't worked.

I just read your other question and I gathered that you're 28, haven't worked since you were 18, but that's mostly because you've been in education, training and did 4 years of charity work?

If this is true, it's admirable. As long as you have ambition or want to eventually work (as opposed to being a dole dosser!) then I wouldn't think of you as a loser at all!

xx Emmie

Answer 6

What kind of affection are you wanting from a married woman?

I don't see a man with little experience a loser. It's all in your appearance and self confidence.

Answer 7

Whoa there tiger. Don't lump them all up into one category. There are many women that see men as a financial resource. But there are many women that look for companionship and love instead. Somehow you are sending out the wrong signals to the wrong women. I can't answer all of this without further information, but you need to reassess your motives and reassess your means and go from there.

GL amigo.

Answer 8

well it may be they see you as someones who is lazy and wont support them in the future if you get as far as marriage and kids. however if the las was really interested in you and she rejected you because of you having little or no work experience then there not worth getting worried about someone will come along who loves who because of your personality not because of work experience good luck.

Answer 9

I dont really think the work experience matters, what matters is that you have a job now. in a womans eyes... no job = loser for sure.

Answer 10

Yes get a job geez and stop seeking affection from married women

Answer 11

well if your a nice guy with a good personality the women should not care if your a loser or not it should just be about your feelings. hope this helped.